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Concentration help!

So here's a problem it seems most people have faced in some form or other.. in my current case: I have an essay due in two days and am having a horrible time concentrating. Everytime I start to look at my keyboard to type, I'm suddenly off in my own world and it's ten minutes later.. the countdown to doom begins. So I'm really in a pickle here, how do you guys buckle down and concentrate when you have a deadline??

 

 

 

 

 

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Added by BilboBaggins on October 24, 2011 at 6:20pm — 4 Comments

Day 1

While I haven't managed to completely avoid DD about him, I managed it for the most part. Mind you, it's caused me to ruminate more about things that make me angry, and it hasn't stopped me from from thinking about him entirely, just...less so.

I've just kept myself distracted, really.

 

I hope, I hope, I hope I can fill the gap with positive things. Or at least constructive things. Like being on this messageboard- the next time I see him, we're probably going to discuss…

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Added by Mira on October 24, 2011 at 5:53pm — No Comments

Cold Turkey?

I am going to ATTEMPT to NOT daydream about...him...for the next four days. It'll be hard. Really hard. Hopefully I won't resort to other forms of daydreaming just to distract myself. But I feel like I'm losing my mind. I need to think about SOMETHING ELSE for a change. 

If I can stick to an eating regimen long enough to lose 20lbs (and believe me, no one's more surprised than I am that I managed that), then I can put my brain on a diet, at least for a little while, right?…

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Added by Mira on October 23, 2011 at 7:55pm — 4 Comments

My daydreaming makes me clumsy??

Hi im new here, I just discovered a site like this existed. :) 

I know this sounds ridiculously stupid but when I daydream , I forget my surroundings and start to act out my daydream. Ill end up running around the house and eventually bump myself somewhere usuallyI will trip or hit my foot on something hard. I mean its ridicoulous to imagine a 19 year old prancing around the house because of a day dream, my mom thinks it some type of excercise lol.  The most annoying thing is when I…

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Added by anna on October 23, 2011 at 6:11pm — 5 Comments

THE SECRET-and Maladaptive Daydreaming!!!??!!!! PLESE HELP

    Ok, So i will try to make this as brief as possible. THE SECRET for anyone who doesnt know-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8 this is just a brief summary basicly  talking about the film. The secret is a belief somewhat revolving…

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Added by Vendetta_Crazzed on October 23, 2011 at 11:57am — 2 Comments

Newbie

Hello,

 

   I just recently found this site when I was trying to look up information, in regards to my daydreaming. I haven't been officially diagnosed with MD, so I hope that it's okay that I have joined. However, all the information I've seen so far about MD seems to reflect what I've been dealing with since early childhood. It was something of a relief, to be honest, to finally find information and a place where others deal with this.

 

   I've improved a…

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Added by Ashley N. on October 22, 2011 at 12:40pm — 2 Comments

When Dreams...Come True?

I have such terrible self-esteem and have spent so much time in my life daydreaming myself as confident and talented, that there have been more than a few instances where I try to do something and it's not nearly as easy as I dreamed it to be (because of course, in reality, I don't know enough about it). That gives me an overall impression of myself as clumsy and untalented.

But am I? Or am I just impatient?

I have a ukulele and I love it, but I've never put enough time and…

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Added by Mira on October 21, 2011 at 7:22pm — 1 Comment

A poem that I love

Let me preface this by saying that I ADORE poetry- reading it, writing it, hearing it. It absorbs me more than most things and takes me out of myself, and yet is short enough for me to absorb in small chunks. Here is a poem that I always think describes what goes on in my head:

 

"Pursuit" by Stephen Dobyns

 

Each thing I do I rush through so I can do

something else. In…

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Added by Mira on October 20, 2011 at 8:03pm — 6 Comments

the real me vs. the fantasy me

As with many other MDers my fantasy self and my real self tend to be extremely different people. Let's start with me in the real world:

In the real world I get no respect at all and I'm very quiet and reserved unless I'm with people I like. But true friends are hard to come by because most people I meet treat me like I'm a lower life form who doesn't deserve their attention. Many times they will even pretend they can't hear me speaking and go to talk to people who are more worth their…

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Added by Drake on October 20, 2011 at 6:28pm — 1 Comment

How to add a photo

Can anyone explain in very simple terms how to add a photo for my icon?  I think I might be lacking something on my computer.

Added by roxanne on October 20, 2011 at 5:05pm — 4 Comments

First Post - Therapeutic Obsession

I'm a little unsure what to post here- what if someone I know reads it?? I'm so paranoid about Internet privacy...

 

I've been daydreaming for a long time. For as long as I can remember. I've never had imaginary friends, per se, I've always just dreamed up alternate versions of my own life.  Scenarios and events far more exciting than the ones that actually happen to me. 

 

In reality I'm quite shy and have low self-esteem. I have a lot of anxiety. I'm afraid of…

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Added by Mira on October 19, 2011 at 8:09pm — 5 Comments

I believe in dreams

Life. My life. What is it and what does it mean? 21 years old and at her community college with no end in sight or any real plan. *shrugs* I have so many dreams and wishes about my life but not the patience to endure the years getting there; if I get there of course.



The college education, the high paying dream job, the husband, the house, the kids. One would think all these things could be achieved by the age of thirty. Unfortunately the nine years I have to achieve this list seems… Continue

Added by Rezona on October 16, 2011 at 8:25pm — 2 Comments

Mindless activities?

Say, you have a very vibrant mind and you like spending endless hours daydreaming. What happens after you are done? Do you still have to use your head to think, if that's what you need to do?

 

I have been experiencing this for a while now, becoming as less 'intelligent' as I come off because I have deliberately lowered my thinking activities by doing mindless and lazy activities, such as browsing pictures, lurking on forums without posting anything, or others that you think…

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Added by Jessy on October 15, 2011 at 3:42am — 6 Comments

Hello.

Hello, my name is Madalyn. Since I was about 3 years old, I have always been immersed in my world. It has never posed a problem  until about two years ago. I stopped visiting (or even speaking to) any of my friends because I wanted to watch a television show (that I used as my world. I would make up my own episodes in my head). Last year, I would refuse to go to school because it was a constant reminder that my world would never be real (by then I was already making up my own worlds instead…

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Added by littleschrodinger'scat on October 14, 2011 at 1:30pm — 2 Comments

Out Of Body Experiences

Has anyone ever had them? I get them quite often and was wondering if there was a connection. I'm usually almost asleep or awake but relaxed when they happen. Sometimes I can see, sometimes I can't. All sorts of things happen, I fall through the floor to the room downstairs or I go upwards through the roof and into the air.

 

Anyway, not everyone believes in this sort of thing. But it is all about a state of mind. When we go off into a DD it's almost like meditation. We go…

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Added by Rachel S on October 11, 2011 at 5:39am — 3 Comments

Can't get along with people

3 more members just left, and all that reminds me of is how I can't get along with people, even online.  I also had a bunch of people unfriend me on facebook recently too.  I'm sure they were strangers, but still, it just reminds me how alone I am.  I don't even say much on here, but what little I say is apparently offensive.  I try not to be, but when you're cranky and have negative reactions to most of what you see in life, it's hard not to let that seep into what you write, even if you're… Continue

Added by Cordellia Amethyste Rose on October 10, 2011 at 7:01pm — 20 Comments

A Kiss of Fantasy

Maladaptive Daydreaming had once been the greatest concern of my life, especially after I suddenly discovered myself addicted to this strange phenomenon(I prefer not to say disorder). All MDers are quite aware that the world hardly knows about this, and proper treatment or cure, to my knowledge is yet to come. In a personal battle with this curse, I have spent almost two years trying to rediscover myself, re-figure out what I really was. And in doing so, I confess, I couldn't overthrow the…

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Added by Zen on October 10, 2011 at 2:52am — No Comments

Quiz: How far does your imagination stretch?

I was bored and started taking random online quizzes and stumbled on this one. I thought it was sorta  interesting so I thought I would share it with everybody here. Although Its pretty obvious as to what everybodies results will be. Without Imagination, could MD even exist? But anyways, heres the link : http://www.chatterbean.com/personality-quizzes/imagination/ and feel free to post your results on here!

Added by Skylar Grey on October 9, 2011 at 2:55pm — 6 Comments

Doing our own research

While we wait for researchers to delve into out commonalities to try and figure this MD thing out, maybe we can do some of our own research.   Or maybe this is a useless blog, but anyway, I have a disorder called Complex Hemihypertrophy which means that one side of my body is… Continue

Added by Patty on October 9, 2011 at 6:04am — 7 Comments

On Paper

Today has been a bad day.

 

Throughout the night I dreamt about my DD characters in a complex story that was pretty adrenaline filled. When I woke (Lunchtime! After twelve hours sleep! It's like I'm trapped in my dreams) I lay awake and finished the story for about an hour. I then went to town on my day off to do a few errands etc and daydreamed the entire time. Then I got home and ate. And daydreamed constantly. So I'm a bit sick now.

 

I have an empty notebook I…

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Added by Rachel S on October 6, 2011 at 12:18pm — 11 Comments

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