All Blog Posts (2,697)

An example of what others see when we MD

https://youtu.be/XUEfIP4wwMs

This video shows exactly what we do when we MD. Lot of times, my mum and brother have caught me in this stage. Lot of other videos too in this channel about MD. Worth checking it out, y'all.

Added by Kiruba Shankar Victor on May 14, 2021 at 11:12pm — No Comments

I'm struggling to process but happy to be here! (UK)

[Trigger warning: mentions sexual abuse].

Hello lovely people! It's so great to meet you all.

I found out I had MD last night, despite having it all my life. I had a very intense reaction as so many things made sense suddenly, but it is also validating because now I know for sure that I'm not making up any of my problems, going "crazy" etc. And I am so grateful to know that I am not alone anymore. 

But I am finding it very difficult dealing with the knowledge that MD is…

Continue

Added by Ruthie on May 12, 2021 at 4:30am — 5 Comments

I learned so much

I do daydream regularly, but don't MD anymore. I think when it started, I got indulged and carried away. I didn't have to use my fantasies as an excuse to make myself even happier, all because real life wasn't helping out. I just needed to speak up to people and tell them how I feel about everything. My parents might've brought me to a professional to sort out my issues with socializing. I would've got better grades in school and had a better life. It's the lousy decisions I made to…

Continue

Added by Jessica Ballantyne on May 10, 2021 at 1:22pm — No Comments

Look how far we've come!!!

I've found this video of a therapist talking about MD! I hope it helps!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVqT5RxAb3E&t=511s&ab_channel=KatiMorton

Added by Rosa Fox on May 7, 2021 at 5:53am — 2 Comments

Slipping back ... ?

Lately I've been falling back into my old habits with MD... I thought I had gotten over it, but the way school has going and the fact that I recently made some OCs that are always on my mind isn't exactly helping... I can't say for sure if it will be as bad as it as before (I can't remember large swathes of the period of time when my MD was at its worst) but I'd rather not return to it at all. I find myself zoning out in class into the new universe in my head, and my grades are suffering…

Continue

Added by Jenna on April 29, 2021 at 7:30pm — 4 Comments

New Questionnaire

Hi everyone! There seems to be a new questionnaire and study participation possibility for MD:

Sense of Agency in unusual forms of nocturnal dreaming and daydreaming

Accessible under: http://soffer-dudek-lab.com/

Added by Kalliope on April 25, 2021 at 11:02am — 1 Comment

My experience so far with MD

For me, it's mostly focused on better versions of me with input taken from real life as well as parts of who I actually am.



Eg: 2 to 3 years ago, My daydreams were focused on a version of me who's a successful E-sports player and lives independent, very physically fit and good at dating. Now it's more focused on dream scenarios involving a certain lady I've had feelings for. And real life incidents have added to the daydreams. Eg: a friend's marriage in real life led me to imagine… Continue

Added by Kiruba Shankar Victor on April 23, 2021 at 1:09am — 5 Comments

In a Maze

When I was doing MD, I thought it was awesome. It lulled me into complacency and I'd spend hours staring away into a fuge, with glowing hopes things will eventually go my way. Unfortunately, it dug me into a deeper hole. Nobody knew my satisfaction as I have, but they didn't understand why my eyes had a distant stare, why I moved funny, didn't talk much and why I almost wasn't ever listening. It clearly proved to them that I was in another world. To myself, I believed I can do…

Continue

Added by Jessica Ballantyne on April 19, 2021 at 4:40pm — 4 Comments

Putting myself in one's shoes

I tend to be inspired by people from movies and TV series, and often wish I had their lives and personas. I know  for sure that I'm not those characters. I don't have their skill sets, minds, looks and their coolness. I work remotely at home, and it can be very boring, so sometimes I imagine myself as a doctor or computer programmer in a science fiction action film. 



Sometimes when I get out there and do what I like, it's still a challenge, because I'm an extremely quiet…

Continue

Added by Jessica Ballantyne on April 12, 2021 at 7:09pm — 2 Comments

help me understand my MD

so mostly in my mds the characters are me or bollywood version of me, and all the people i know. they are just sort of watching everything that is happening. mostly they are people with whom i have recently tackled except my ex of course! like the ones i recently met or the ones i had a conversation with online. things like there...(so let me call these people plus-people, with whom i tackled lately or something happened with them )

and mostly my mds include me winning a football…

Continue

Added by someone on April 10, 2021 at 9:03pm — 2 Comments

daydreaming block?

I wonder if anyone else with MD struggles with this, too, but sometimes I have trouble finding something to think about. Like how an artist has an art block. Majority of the time I can easily find a story to entertain me, and when I do I'll often spend hours daydreaming just about it, and sometimes I'll even continue it for days or even weeks afterwards. But every now and again I just feel kind of drained where I can't think of anything. I still have this, kinda like an intense urge, to go…

Continue

Added by Trinity on April 6, 2021 at 5:04pm — 1 Comment

Why I stopped

I used to think MD was cool. Kind of like when someone smokes. I was a young kid, and didn't know what harm MD can actually do. I did believe that MD was assuring me that life will get better and adventurous, at that. So I looked forward to experiencing an amazing life. What I didn't realize is that MD was lying to me the whole time. It didn't promise anything of the sort. It was just a sequence of entertaining stories in my head that kept me going. I have noticed while I was doing…

Continue

Added by Jessica Ballantyne on March 28, 2021 at 1:57pm — 4 Comments

Looking for a study/work partner who is in the same boat as I am!

I have been daydreaming ever since I was a kid- different fantacies at different stages in life. Ultimately this impacted my social life, my observation skills, my personality and my studies. I did manage to score good marks, but I alone know how much I struggled to focus. I have discussed this with my family, but no one seemed to take this seriously.

I have often felt alone, felt like I was the only one with this issue. I was surprised to learn that there are so many sailing on this…

Continue

Added by Maya on March 27, 2021 at 1:45pm — 9 Comments

Does you feel like you're not maturing correctly because of MD?

Hi everyone, how are you all doing ??

Today I was thinking about how my MD condition interrupts me strongly in my "maturing". I feel like it blocks me from doing work and other "real life" responsabilities. Almost as if it'll keep me in an infantile behavior for so long and I just cant break free from this...

I dont trust myself anymore because all my doings are interrupted by Daydream, out of my control...

And I feel so bad to be like this, I dont produce, I'm a adult and I wish… Continue

Added by Maria Claudia on March 24, 2021 at 2:52pm — 3 Comments

What do "normal" people think about?

Hey all, like so many of you, I've been working on stopping daydreaming. But one obstacle I've found is I don't know what thoughts are considered "normal".
Like, when I'm busy it's not always easy, but its easier, to not daydream. But what do people who don't daydream do when they have nothing to do?
What happens in their head while they are waiting in a queue or stuck in traffic?

Added by Liz on March 22, 2021 at 12:49pm — 3 Comments

How do I stop that

Hii
im Daydreaming between 3 up to 6 hours a day. I dont even know when this all started. I always did that and thought it would be normal and now I realised that it isn't. I cant have a normal conversation, without asking twice what they saying. I am struggling to learn for exams or even my final exam in a month and a half.I always get distracted by my own world and I dont know how to escape.

Added by Millenium_falke on March 21, 2021 at 11:30pm — No Comments

Cant stop it

I lost control over my live. Im daydreaming between 5-8Hours a day. I have to learn for an exam but i cant force myself to learn. I lost years By doing Nohting than daydreaming. No one knows That i am Daydreaming and i cant Tell anybody because i know they will make fun of it.

Added by Noonespecial on March 17, 2021 at 10:28am — 5 Comments

Meus devaneios

Quando era criança eu sofria Bullying e exclusão social por causa da minha aparência e eu sempre ficava sozinha e ficava devaneando a outra vida com muitos amigos que me ama e gostam de mim, hoje meus devaneios aumentaram e os devaneios me ajudam no dia dia ( me ajuda á pensar melhor e resolver os meus problemas ) e até hoje eu sofro bullying e exclusão social , nada mudou.

Added by Andie on March 17, 2021 at 8:30am — No Comments

Anxiety Attack During Daydream

Hi, this is my first blog post. I joined a while ago but I've been too nervous to use the website.

I wanted to share an experience that I had a couple nights ago that kind of scared me.  I normally listen to music while daydreaming at night, typically very late into the morning (sometimes up until after 6 am). Sometimes I think about very sad things that cause me to stay awake.

I was having one of those *moments*- if that's what I should call it- when I was daydreaming about…

Continue

Added by Trinity on March 16, 2021 at 2:34pm — No Comments

Featured Blog Posts

Monthly Archives

2021

2020

2019

2018

2017

2016

2015

2014

2013

2012

2011

2010

2009

1970

© 2021   Created by Valeria Franco.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service

G-S8WJHKYMQH Real Time Web Analytics

Clicky