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Maladaptive Daydreamers

Discuss & share what it's like living with this emerging disorder.See More
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Hearing about the Pandemic

I nearly stopped ever doing maladaptive daydreaming ever again. It greatly effected my decisions and actions in life. How can you rationalize or make sense of things when your lost in a daze? Your dreams are so alluring that they'll effect your journey of learning and adapting into the world. I actually believed in everything that my MDD was telling me until reality hit me in my early 30's. It was no joke. When I was under the influence I almost had no sense of reality. I didn't seem to realize…See More
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"I was in the exact same shoes as you are. I created nonexistent worlds in my head since I was in grade 6. I first got triggered by a science fiction documentary and a classic Star Trek episode in my basement. It was the most regrettable thing I…"
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How to fight MDD/Compulsive Fantasy?

I have been fantasizing/day dreaming obsessively since a very young age. I was, and still am a very shy person and always had difficulties navigating social situations, and forming relationships with the opposite sex. I thus began fantasizing as an exercise to overcome tension, anxiety and shyness. Gradually, the dream world that I began creating was so satisfying and mentally rewarding that increasingly I was fantasizing on a regular basis without the explicit need to overcome any mental…See More
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Arhum Tariq Qureshi replied to Naomi's discussion How to control it
"Hi, Naomi! Zoning out is completely natural for MD. I'm a bio major at my university, so I know a little how you feel :) What I would always do is compartmentalize; carve out a portion of my day that I can daydream and slowly decrease that…"
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Daydreamers welcome

Most children daydream. Most children have imaginary friends they play out creative scenarios with. Their fantasy world is a simple, joyful distraction from their outer lives. Eventually their outer lives take root, and they grow out of it. Their playful fantasies become unnecessary as they develop more fulfilling relationships. Their fantasy dream world fades into the past as nothing but a wonderful childhood memory. Usually they forget it ever existed.
For some of us............it doesn't, and the consequences can be drastic.

For the past 30 years I've been living in an alternate reality that has completely taken over my life. Instead of fading into the past, it became my reality. The outside world faded & faded, and I've been fighting to reclaim it. Long past the point of being a joyful fantasy, it's become an addiction that I have unlimited access to. I have no self control. I can only distract myself out of it. I'm like an alcoholic with an unlimited supply of booze everywhere I go. When I do it too much I feel sick & dazed, yet I can't stop. I've stepped out into traffic & almost gotten myself killed more times than I can count. I've gotten better & am struggling to find footing in the outside world. In the meantime, I want to reach out.

This condition has a name. It's called Maladaptive Daydreaming, also known as Compulsive Fantasizing. I spent years feeling alone and scared, like I was the only one on the planet that could possibly be going through this. I felt like a freak. I was completely ashamed and scared to death anyone would find out. It's time to end that. We're not freaks. Our brains work differently. Maladaptive Daydreamers (Compulsive Fantasizers) lead unique and enriching lives. We have wondrous gifts and gut-wrenching struggles. For the good and the bad, this condition takes a lot of strength and energy to live with. I refuse to be ashamed, and I don't want anyone else to be either.

I know there are others out there who are experiencing a similar kind of condition. Hopefully they're not experiencing it to the extreme that I have. Either way, let's talk. Perhaps we can find some answers together.

This forum isn't just for Maladaptive Daydreamers (Compulsive Fantasizers). Many disorders do overlap. Feel free to discuss any that you like. Let's keep the dialog going.

One day, I hope we can all stand proud and learn to live the best of both worlds. Once we do, I'm sure we'll feel better off for having had this condition.


Hearing about the Pandemic

Started by Silver Swan 17 hours ago. 0 Replies

I nearly stopped ever doing maladaptive daydreaming ever again. It greatly effected my decisions and actions in life. How can you rationalize or make sense of things when your lost in a daze? Your dreams are so alluring that they'll effect your…Continue

How to fight MDD/Compulsive Fantasy?

Started by Aritra Gupta. Last reply by Silver Swan Mar 12. 1 Reply

I have been fantasizing/day dreaming obsessively since a very young age. I was, and still am a very shy person and always had difficulties navigating social situations, and forming relationships with the opposite sex. I thus began fantasizing as an…Continue

How to control it

Started by Naomi. Last reply by Arhum Tariq Qureshi Mar 9. 2 Replies

My daydreaming is beginning to takeover my life and I try to control it but I can’t seem too as it makes me feel happy, content and loved. But I notice myself not paying attention in class and zoning out when I’m with my friends because of it and I…Continue

Gonna Abstain

Started by Marcy. Last reply by Silver Swan Mar 6. 3 Replies

Hello. I hope you all are doing well. So… I’ve decided to try to abstain from MD for a while, but not permanently. Obviously, all of my previous attempts of abstaining have failed, even if they were only supposed to be temporary. However, I have…Continue

Yes, you can cure Maladaptive Daydreaming

Started by Eretaia. Last reply by Stacey Mar 4. 172 Replies

Two years ago when I joined this community, I think I was more dead than alive. I've been waging quite a brutal war with maladaptive dreaming and the array of issues that underlie it ever since then and I'm on my way out of this prison. I wanted to…Continue

Tags: overcoming, maladaptive, daydreaming

Hard to Believe

Started by Silver Swan Feb 25. 0 Replies

It is hard to believe that MDD seemed like a beautiful thing when I was a kid. Of course, I was carefree with no responsibilities. The real world was over my head. My trigger started with a science fiction documentary and a Star Trek TV show, when I…Continue

Happy New Year from a long time MDD’er / Lurker

Started by Calli.W. Last reply by Silver Swan Feb 17. 3 Replies

Thought I’d start the new year and decade with a post as I've finally decided to make a serious effort to kick my MDD addiction. So, hi everyone. I’ve lurked on this site for years on and off but never posted. Probably b/c I didn’t feel I had…Continue


Started by Olivia Feb 12. 0 Replies

So I fear that my daydreaming might be turning into a symptom of disassociation. There are some times where I am writing or reading and even thought I’m a good speller and reader and writer, the words seem to become weird, unusual, wrong. Even if I…Continue

Triggers everywhere..

Started by Sueli. Last reply by Silver Swan Feb 10. 3 Replies

I saw some people talking about triggers, and when EVERYTHING can be a trigger for you to start dreaming? even read the comments on this site? so hard

Other obsessions

Started by F J. Last reply by F J Feb 3. 7 Replies

Does anyone else also have struggles with other obsessions maybe something that triggers or goes with your MDD? For example, i have really unhealthy eating habits and am almost addicted to sugary snacks. I eat about half a pack of biscuits a day,…Continue


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    Out Of My Mind (article I wrote on MD)

    This is an article I wrote for my writing class about MD.  

    Out of My Mind…


    Created by Cordellia Amethyste Rose Nov 22, 2010 at 7:36pm. Last updated by Cordellia Amethyste Rose Nov 22, 2010.

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    Created by Cordellia Amethyste Rose Feb 20, 2010 at 11:14am. Last updated by Cordellia Amethyste Rose Feb 20, 2010.


    Do I have Maladaptive Dayreaming?

    Maladaptive Daydreaming is not an officially recognized condition yet. We’re still learning a lot about it. Here are some of the main symptoms that seem to be emerging:
    • You daydream more often than you think is normal.
    • You’ve built up a character(s) that’s an idealized version of yourself
    • You feel more empowered in your daydreams.
    • You’re starting to enjoy daydreaming better than the real world.
    • Daydreaming is starting to interfere with your day-to-day activities.
    • You might enact some movement, like pacing or moving your hands, (though not everyone does this).

    • Some people make facial expressions, talk, and/or act out their daydreams.  

    It's not all bad...

    Maladaptive Daydreamers have many gifts along with struggles.

    -extreme creativity
    -the ability to think through complex issues on our own
    -the ability to see issues from many perspectives (we can have intense dialogs in our own minds)
    -the ability to think quickly
    -strength. (It takes a lot of strength to live in two worlds at once.)
    -insightful and empathetic
    -loving (Even when no one's around, we still have people to love in our minds.)

    -extreme difficulty concentrating
    -sluggish. It's hard to be productive when you just want to daydream
    -clumsy and awkward
    -difficulty cultivating or maintaining relationships (This may not apply to everyone, but if your MD starts to progress, you may prefer daydreaming to real interactions)
    -difficulty completing tasks due to desire to constantly stop and daydreaming
    -difficulty reaching certain milestones because of constant desire to stop and daydream.

    What do I DO?

    Well, we're still figuring that out. Since this is so new it's kinda up to us to figure out how to deal with it. I encourage people to try anything they can & want to. If something works, please let us know, so others will benefit.
    -Identifying triggers
    Many people find that
    certain activities
    trigger them to start
    Identifying and
    limiting exposure to
    triggers is one way to
    Common triggers:
    music, tv, books,
    long walks or
    monotonous activity
    If you feel yourself
    starting to daydream,
    stop and change
    activities. Get up and
    do anything else and
    come back to it when
    you're feeling more
    -Getting out in the public
    A lot of times we just
    need to get out of our
    heads for awhile. Go
    out and talk to people.
    -Get up quickly and go to bed tired.
    Many daydream in the
    morning. To avoid
    this, make sure you get
    out of bed the instant
    you wake up.
    To avoid daydreaming
    at night, go to bed
    when you're extremely
    -Allow limited daydreaming
    Many of us really
    appreciate the comfort
    of our daydreams and
    don't want to give
    them up.
    Instead, allow
    yourself certain times
    to daydream, and
    force yourself to get
    up and stop when
    your time is up.
    -Find other things you love, and focus on them.
    Don't forget that we
    daydream because we
    love it. It may take
    time and energy to
    focus, but if we can
    make the external
    world more fun, then
    we won't need to
    daydream as much.


    Another common suggestion that people are saying works for them is meditation.  Some have said it helps them focus, even if it doesn't completely eliminate their MD.  Some have also said that Yoga and meditation help.



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