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How much control do you have over your daydream storyline?

Started this discussion. Last reply by The1andonlyAbber May 21, 2014. 4 Replies

I'm in control of nearly everything that happens in my daydreams. How about you?

Does anyone else's daydreams involve "breaking the fourth wall"?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Leda Apr 6, 2014. 4 Replies

By that I mean I sometimes make references to the fact that I'm daydreaming. A select group of my characters know they're imaginary and make jokes about it. For example, if I tell them to stop acting…Continue

What do you think this means?

Started this discussion. Last reply by The1andonlyAbber Mar 18, 2014. 1 Reply

I had 2 dreams last night. They were both about things from my childhood happening again, except at the age I am now. I dreamed that my "pet" potted cactus from when I was 7 (that ironically died…Continue

Writing a book about my MD experiences

Started this discussion. Last reply by Ethan Levy Jul 11, 2014. 19 Replies

I'm 15 and I want to be an author when I grow up. I was thinking that maybe I can write an autobiography or memoir about my life with Maladaptive Daydreaming. I was planning on writing what…Continue

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Returning here after a LONG time

Posted on November 2, 2023 at 8:27am 6 Comments

I first joined this forum when I was 14 or 15. I used to be super active on here, reading every new post and commenting a lot. I became much less active when I was 16 and my MD took a turn for the worse. Since the daydream was partly augmented reality based, I almost never had to shut it off, and it got to the point where I didn’t want to discuss MD much because I didn’t want to dwell on the fact that it wasn’t real.

When I was 17, I completely recovered. (More on that later,… Continue

A Few Things I'm Thankful For (Belated Thanksgiving Blog Post)

Posted on December 1, 2014 at 8:38pm 1 Comment

Hi everybody! I've been on this site a lot lately, but it's been a while since I made an actual blog post. This blog post is intended for me to belatedly express my gratitude.

I have a lot to be thankful for. We all do, actually. But seeing as you've probably heard lots of rants about about food and water and "roofs over our heads" from relatives over Thanksgiving--believe me, I did--and I'm assuming you probably don't want to hear another one (not that we shouldn't be grateful for… Continue

Rather sad

Posted on June 8, 2014 at 7:38pm 1 Comment

The story in my mind right now is, in my opinion, one of the coolest stories ever. Which makes sense. It was designed specifically for me to enjoy. While I daydream, there is a small part of me that is simultaneously fangirling.

I've thought about writing my daydreams down, but they're WAYYYY too complicated, and contain tons of characters from books and TV shows that already exist (and would be difficult to disguise as original characters). Changing that would ruin the story for me,… Continue

My crazy daydream

Posted on June 5, 2014 at 9:02pm 5 Comments

I used to have like, 20 daydreams, but they were all very shallow (and I kind of outgrew then) so they got boring and I got rid of them. Then I found a new daydream. I like it so much that I don't really have any other daydreams because I don't think they would be as good as this one. The new daydream is a combination of all the best parts of my old daydreams, plus some brand-new stuff. In my daydream, my character is me but a different species (we'll get to that later). My character lives in a… Continue

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At 7:40pm on February 19, 2014, The1andonlyAbber said…
My "family" is kind of a big part of my daydreams, but they aren't actually the main focus.
At 8:57am on February 17, 2014, The1andonlyAbber said…
@I. Hanna, I have an imaginary 10-year-old brother, 9-year-old sister, and 8-year-old sister. I also have a large group of random kids who are my cousins, and a large group of older kids and adults who I call my cousins but I'm not related to.
At 5:21pm on February 15, 2014, Malana said…

Just saying hi back! :D Stay awesome! ;)

At 7:23pm on February 13, 2014, Cordellia Amethyste Rose said…

Welcome!  Thanks for joining!


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