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Accountability buddy?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jessica Ballantyne Apr 29, 2023. 6 Replies

Hello everyone! It's high time I take myself seriously and stop daydreaming. Not that I haven't been taking myself seriously so far. I was. But at the same time, a part of me always wanted to stick…Continue

Are you able to share the contents of your daydreams?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jessica Ballantyne Oct 26, 2022. 21 Replies

When I used to have theraphy years ago my therapist tried hard and pushed me a little to spill the contents of my daydreams. But I never could. I felt a strange mixture of discomfirt and resistance…Continue

Addiction - Gabor Mate

Started May 21, 2021 0 Replies

I came across this podcast featuring Dr. Gabor Mate. He has worked with some of the most severely affected addicts and I've learnt a lot from this interview. I strongly recommend listening to it. His…Continue

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This is me, talking about my experience. Without any pessimism towards the situation. Without any optimism about the future, or any other feelings involved in general. Just plainly describing my day to day experience. I woke up today feelin the say way I felt yesterday, which was the same way I felt the day before, which is the same I felt a week, month, year, decade, prior to today. I wake up feeling nothing; and in a few moments, my mind starts finding something to be distracted about. It…See More
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Cain liked Rose Only's blog post Instantly stop the urge to daydream
Jul 20, 2024
Jessica Ballantyne replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"I'm sorry to hear your suffering from depression and loneliness, leading you to daydreaming. This sounds familiar and I was once in this situation, it was so dismal. My daydreaming came in forms according to my emotions. If I was happy, my…"
Apr 29, 2023
Tammy O. replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"You can private message me so we can hold each other accountable."
Apr 28, 2023
David H replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"New to this site, 1st day. I've been MD about 5 years. I engage in it because my real life is just depression and loneliness. Need help getting back to reality. Any ideas ?"
Apr 28, 2023
Jessica Ballantyne replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"Hi, I had the same issue since I was a kid. I wasn't self-confident and accepting, and wanted to be like everybody else, who easily achieved friends, relationships and accomplishments. I used daydreaming to get away from my reality. Although,…"
Apr 27, 2023
Tammy O. replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"Hello, I have been working on being more mindful so I could stop daydreaming. I feel like I wasted so much of my life because of daydreaming. I think the reason I daydream is because of my  low self-esteem. I dont value or accept myself and…"
Apr 26, 2023
Cain liked Source's blog post Like clockwork
Apr 25, 2023
Cain replied to emc97's discussion How to deal with MD
"My entire life fell apart about 5 years ago. When I suddenly realized that I'll never be the person that I am in my day dreams. When I finally got what I always day dreamed about, I felt as empty as I always have. I've always ignored that…"
Apr 25, 2023
Jessica Ballantyne replied to Cain's discussion Accountability buddy?
"Just like you, I stopped daydreaming. Although, I was really my own therapist. I didn't want anybody outside my family to learn I was a daydreamer. I was a coward to admit the content of my daydreams. All my life people berated me to stop…"
Apr 6, 2023
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Accountability buddy?

Hello everyone! It's high time I take myself seriously and stop daydreaming. Not that I haven't been taking myself seriously so far. I was. But at the same time, a part of me always wanted to stick to daydreaming because it's been so comforting all my life. Don't get me wrong, a part of me still wants to remain like this - numb in reality and an amazing life in my head. This time, the only difference is I can notice how I myself keep sabotaging my attempts at dealing with MD. I think being…See More
Apr 4, 2023
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Cain replied to emc97's discussion How to deal with MD
"Hi Camoran! Thanks for sharing your perpesctive. What you've mentioned is quite interesting and I have a few questions for you. I would be really grateful if you could take some time out to get back to me on these :)  So if I understand…"
Apr 4, 2023
Cain replied to Alexandrina Volkova's discussion Finally assuming the problem
"Hi Alexandrina - I understand how you feel. With each passing year, I too used to feel like I'm wasting away my life. Looking back at my past, it feels like I haven't been a part of reality at all. And I can relate to your fear. It's…"
Apr 4, 2023
Jessica Ballantyne replied to Cain's discussion Are you able to share the contents of your daydreams?
"My dream life has its highs and lows, like you, they are not always happy escapes. At times, they can look nightmarish, depending on my mood. I faced moments and situations in my life that struck a nerve, and my dreams suddenly turned dark. Your…"
Oct 26, 2022
Rosário replied to Cain's discussion Are you able to share the contents of your daydreams?
"Desvaneio com frequência quando me sinto insegura. Qualquer coisa que me faça sentir assim me leva a imaginar uma história envolvendo o que me causa inquietação. Nessa semana meu pai veio me visitar, ele é…"
Oct 26, 2022
Rosário liked Cain's discussion Are you able to share the contents of your daydreams?
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Talking about it

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This is me, talking about my experience. Without any pessimism towards the situation. Without any optimism about the future, or any other feelings involved in general. Just plainly describing my day to day experience. 

I woke up today feelin the say way I felt yesterday, which was the same way I felt the day before, which is the same I felt a week, month, year, decade, prior to today. I wake up feeling nothing; and in a few moments, my mind starts finding something to be…

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