I got a very disturbing report that some men are propositioning women for sex on here.  This is completely inappropriate and will not be tolerated.  This is not a porn site, and I don't want anyone (male or female) to feel sexually harassed on here.  If this has happened to you, please message me immediately, and tell me who it was and what they said.  You can remain anonymous.  If you have done this, please stop IMMEDIATELY.  Anyone sexually propositioning another member risks suspension.…

I'm really frustrated right now, and I don't know what to do about it.  After years of drinking way too much, I managed to quit on my own (after numerous attempts) back in 2006.  It was really hard, but I did it, and I've been really good about staying sober.  The problem is I keep dreaming about drinking.  I'm usually not drinking in excess in my dreams, but the fact that I'm drinking at all is really disturbing to me.  The other night I didn't dream that I was drinking per se, but I…

Today, a very nice lady moved out of my apartment building, so I thought I'd share something in her honor.  She actually signed up for this site, but I don't think she comes here anymore.  I didn't know her well.  We'd say "Hi" in passing but not much more than that.  However, many years ago, when I was having a bad day, she did something very sweet.  It was 3 days before Christmas, and I had bought several pairs of fun socks for myself as a treat, when suddenly I lost my wallet.  I looked…