Kiruba Victor
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Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, my dad also did give me some good advice, on how to be, as a person. But my parents didn't care to give me social tips, so I could've mingled better. I had to learn that from friends."
yesterday
Kiruba Victor replied to Larkspur's discussion do you fantasize someone falling in love with you?
"Are you Indian too, Mary?"
yesterday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, it makes sense. I have to get out there and start working. I'm still looking for a jobs, and the interviews I did, didn't go too well."
Thursday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Nah, it's alright. I just got caught up in this loop of wake up, play, eat, sleep. And plus the daydreaming too, which gives me hurtful scenarios these days. I do want to impact others' lives in a good way myself, but I wonder how much…"
Thursday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, mean people are looking for chances to bully others. So it's not really us. It's them who are at fault really. You can't persuade someone who is prepared to do something, to go the other way."
Wednesday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Well, that's a wish that might never get fulfilled for me, or a lot of Indians for that matter. Getting married to a foreigner. But yeah, I do have some foreign friends now, thanks in part to this group and the one on Facebook."
Tuesday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, most people are neurologically mainstream whereas we are the minority. So, people find us difficult to understand. They say it's never too late to change. I don't know how much of that is true, but hey, it's worth a shot,…"
Monday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, that's about what I wanna do as well. I'm taking steps for it, but it has been real slow. I attended an interview today, got a test for tomorrow. So I gotta check to see how that goes."
Monday
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Well, I'm no 10/10 either, but I do have a good personality. Maybe not the most outgoing, but once you get to know me, we can talk good. Face and body wise, I think I'm not too bad. But one thing I need to work on, is my fear of asking a…"
Oct 15
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Well, marriage and children aren't everybody's cup of tea. It's not all fairy tale like. Reality would hit hard in that too.  I don't know why did she ghost me, but she says she's busy on work. But I do see her active…"
Oct 15
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Guess what, I've again got ghosted. For about a month, I was talking to someone. It was going really welll, until now. She stopped responding, but I did see her on Insta, active, even when she's busy. So yeah, I'm feeling the same…"
Oct 14
Condoreano liked Kiruba Victor's blog post The fear of abandonment and how it's affecting me as an MDer
Oct 14
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"No, I haven't, yet. Will check it out today. I'm so absorbed in daydreaming that I've not bothered to check up on current affairs at all."
Oct 13
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Programming is easy if you can learn it. I tried, but it isn't getting in to my head well. I'm settling for business roles now, so that my interpersonal skills can be of some use."
Oct 12
Kiruba Victor replied to Cain's discussion Are you able to share the contents of your daydreams?
"Well, as NSFW as it is to say it, sex is also one of the contents of my MD. The whole package of romance, intimacy, actually. I can't say it to other girls because they get repelled by it and it would kill my chances of asking them out.…"
Oct 11
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, people are far off and the pandemic doesn't make things easier. I'm considering installing Bumble or Tinder again. So let's see how it goes."
Oct 11

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Kiruba Victor's Blog

The fear of abandonment and how it's affecting me as an MDer

Posted on September 29, 2021 at 7:57am 5 Comments

Lately, I've been having daydreams where people I'm close to, abandon me and I'm left all alone.

The dreams involve.

1. The girl I like, who stops talking to me and goes back to her ex and eventually blocks me, for no reason.

2. My closest friends feeling like I'm a burden to them and leaving me.

3. My parents disowning me because I brought shame to the family, due to my slow pace in life and mental health issues.

And then eventually, I become this person…

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A group for all who use WhatsApp, where you can share your experiences, daydreams and make some friends as well

Posted on July 6, 2021 at 10:30pm 2 Comments

https://chat.whatsapp.com/BePW9JxhYLF5ARHJ9rdZfd

I hope I'm not violating any group policies here. I've found this WhatsApp group for MDers to chat with other MDers, so you can join, if you're interested. Would love to meet some of y'all in there

Edit: https://chat.whatsapp.com/J4iMALtGSVYKLe8aXkU4BD

This is the new link. WhatsApp links are…

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MDers and one sided love/crushes

Posted on June 23, 2021 at 10:38am 4 Comments

I feel that us maladaptive daydreamers have a hard time letting go of any one sided crushes we have than others. Like that person would take over our scenarios very much. It has happened to me when I developed feelings for a girl I had talked quite a bit to, only to find out she was committed to someone else. Sad part is, there were some instances where it seemed like she liked me too and I took it too deep and as you might have guessed, daydreamt an entire life with this person which gave…

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People whose vibe and nature we've wanted to emulate in our MD world (if any)

Posted on May 21, 2021 at 9:23am 4 Comments

Have any of you ever had a person in mind whose vibe or style you've wanted to emulate so much that you end up integrating that vibe into your MD world self? It can be either a celebrity or just any person in your life, whose cool nature we feel like imitating. For me, recently, I've wanted to have the swagger and the attitude of a Pakistani Singer named Imran Khan whom I listen too quite often. He has this really cool confidence which I've always wanted. Do you have anyone like that?

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At 5:19am on July 21, 2021, Ayyob said…
Hey,, can u give the link of watsapp group please?
 
 
 

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