"Sure, you can update me. I'd love to know what's going on definitely.
And yeah, time does fly by, and the rest of the world are moving in sync, whereas I'm stuck not knowing what to do, and like you said, paralyzed in despair. I hope…"
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"this 30's thing... I think about it a lot.
sometimes I think that the years go by at a completely different speed than mine, and that while the rest of the world can keep up I am paralyzed in despair. I think I understand you on some…"
"I know the feeling, Yelena. I feel as if I can't do the work sometimes and that I'm not set for it, and honestly, sometimes I think it's true. And there's also the thoughts of what would happen in the future too, especially…"
"I am going through something similar here. I also came out of a comfortable time after high school online and now I got a job and am starting university. I work 8 hours a day and go straight to university classes, not finishing until midnight.…"
"I see. Similar here too. I have comfort people around me. And music drives my daydreams often. Mostly these days, dreams are of redemption. Like getting back from something hurtful"
"Amazing. I'm from India. I'm curious. Tell me about the storylines of your daydreams. If you're comfortable, of course."
"That's good. Where are you from, by the way? I'm curious."
"Same here. I get overwhelmed often, especially at the mention of overtime and targets in my line of work. And yeah, I understand how it feels. There will always be that one rude fellow who thinks he's above everyone, which is annoying. So you…"
"Wow, that's juggling a lot of things. I'm working in marketing for an educational company and I'm finding it hectic XD. How are you handling school and work?"
"I'm glad you found the strength to move on from that. And hey, it's good that you have the person who hurt you, in your daydreams as a punching bag. Quite a good way to blow off some steam. What do you do? I'm curious. As in like,…"
Been a while since I've been here. Felt like sharing recent events.
Hey, everyone. It's been a while since I was active here. So I wanted to share what's going on, and also to know what's new with you guys too. I got work as a Marketing/Business Development Associate for this educational company named CareerLabs. And the work is hectic. I'm out in the field from anywhere between 2 hours to almost 8 hours, connecting with officials in colleges to get events organized for the company. So my work is hectic and I barely have any time to relax, unlike before. I'm…See More
"Yeah, I felt sad upon reading what you went through. I was bullied in my teens, so I know the feeling of hurt and pain. And I always want no one to have to go through it. So if we can make one more person feel safe, both literally as well as…"
"Hey Leoni. I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I can only imagine the trauma you went through, that young. Our MD sometimes uses negative emotions as fuel for scenarios to process it. You can open up to us here at Wild Minds. We won't…"
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Been a while since I've been here. Felt like sharing recent events.
Posted on April 6, 2022 at 6:39am 4 Comments 1 Like
Hey, everyone. It's been a while since I was active here. So I wanted to share what's going on, and also to know what's new with you guys too. I got work as a Marketing/Business Development Associate for this educational company named CareerLabs. And the work is hectic. I'm out in the field from anywhere between 2 hours to almost 8 hours, connecting with officials in colleges to get events organized for the company. So my work is hectic and I barely have any time to relax, unlike before. I'm…
ContinueThe fear of abandonment and how it's affecting me as an MDer
Posted on September 29, 2021 at 7:57am 4 Comments 2 Likes
Lately, I've been having daydreams where people I'm close to, abandon me and I'm left all alone.
The dreams involve.
1. The girl I like, who stops talking to me and goes back to her ex and eventually blocks me, for no reason.
2. My closest friends feeling like I'm a burden to them and leaving me.
3. My parents disowning me because I brought shame to the family, due to my slow pace in life and mental health issues.
And then eventually, I become this person…
ContinueA group for all who use WhatsApp, where you can share your experiences, daydreams and make some friends as well
Posted on July 6, 2021 at 10:30pm 2 Comments 3 Likes
https://chat.whatsapp.com/BePW9JxhYLF5ARHJ9rdZfd
I hope I'm not violating any group policies here. I've found this WhatsApp group for MDers to chat with other MDers, so you can join, if you're interested. Would love to meet some of y'all in there
Edit: https://chat.whatsapp.com/J4iMALtGSVYKLe8aXkU4BD
This is the new link. WhatsApp links are…
ContinueMDers and one sided love/crushes
Posted on June 23, 2021 at 10:38am 3 Comments 1 Like
I feel that us maladaptive daydreamers have a hard time letting go of any one sided crushes we have than others. Like that person would take over our scenarios very much. It has happened to me when I developed feelings for a girl I had talked quite a bit to, only to find out she was committed to someone else. Sad part is, there were some instances where it seemed like she liked me too and I took it too deep and as you might have guessed, daydreamt an entire life with this person which gave…
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- At 5:19am on July 21, 2021,
Ayyob said…
- Hey,, can u give the link of watsapp group please?
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