Kiruba Victor
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Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, I'm Kiruba Victor on Facebook. How do I find you, Jess? Yeah, my situation is also bad as well. So I'm also still searching for a job with less luck."
Nov 19
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, I just woke up and had a bath. Good morning, Jess. Well, I'm still looking for jobs and my friends got placed, so it's hard for me too. Sorry I couldn't get back quickly these days. So if you don't mind, can we connect…"
Nov 18
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Well, I'd like to think that you can discover that one person by putting yourself out there. Hence the dating apps. And well, you'd know if it doesn't work, you can come out. So do give it a shot and see how it works for you. Yeah,…"
Nov 16
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Good morning, Jess. You're right when you say you shouldn't assume people would help. But you also shouldn't assume no one would help either. My situation is also getting worse by the minute. I'm also procastinating really bad. I…"
Nov 15
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, I do read them all, Jess. It's just that I read them in the morning, which is now.  Yeah, moving out is a hard task. My friends also urge me to move out. If only I were financially stable. Believe me, I really want to move out…"
Nov 14
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, I understand how you feel. I feel like I might be a late bloomer as well, but hey, I still hold on to the saying that "Life finds a way" And it will for you too. I'm looking for jobs in IT which aren't many left…"
Nov 13
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, that has happened to me as well, sometimes. But hey, if it helps, you have a friend in me. I'm sorry I've been unable to talk back to you as often as I used to, spending excess time in gaming as well as daydreaming. But I'll be…"
Nov 12
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, it makes sense. I would want to see a reflection of myself in my partner as well. In terms of values and interests. Only, for me, I'm not too sure if I'd get it or not. Yeah, I applied for another job yesterday, but no response yet.…"
Nov 11
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, I'm sorry I'm unable to come around to you. And I really love that you've venting to me. I'm caught up in my own head, and also in the game world too. So yeah, I do understand how you feel, because a part of it is how I…"
Nov 10
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"I don't know why, but everyone I meet is either "not wanting a relationship right now" or already committed to someone else. Just yesterday, I was talking to another person, and I was lowkey hoping for a relationship, but she was…"
Nov 9
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Well, I did have a few of them. Embarassing moments, but they were all in the past now. I lied about smoking and drinking to seem cool, but now I realise it's cringe. Well, you have your own pace, Jess. Ultimately, no one except the ones close…"
Nov 8
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"That's good. I got vaccinated a while ago, and I can go out, but unfortunately, heavy rains prevent me from doing so. Yeah, you will. I hope I'll find someone as well."
Nov 7
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"I'm sorry I haven't been able to talk to you for a while. I escaped into gaming to fill out the loneliness. And I got lazy to respond to you. I'm really sorry about that. While I'll still be gaming, I'll talk to you…"
Nov 7
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Yeah, it didn't make sense to me neither, and it was quite hurtful. But I guess she was the coward. I haven't worked out too much either. And I feel like a sloth. I've also never had real romance either, nor intimacy as well. I wish…"
Nov 7
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"Something happened recently. I went on a dating app callled Ur My Type. I don't know with what purpose I went there, but I did. And after meeting a few people, I chanced upon this one girl who was nearby and she had wanted something casual. And…"
Nov 6
Kiruba Victor commented on Jessica Ballantyne's blog post Outside my head
"And I'm still on the job hunt. It slowed down now, because I'm spending time with my dad who's come here for a vacation."
Nov 5

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Kiruba Victor's Blog

The fear of abandonment and how it's affecting me as an MDer

Posted on September 29, 2021 at 7:57am 4 Comments

Lately, I've been having daydreams where people I'm close to, abandon me and I'm left all alone.

The dreams involve.

1. The girl I like, who stops talking to me and goes back to her ex and eventually blocks me, for no reason.

2. My closest friends feeling like I'm a burden to them and leaving me.

3. My parents disowning me because I brought shame to the family, due to my slow pace in life and mental health issues.

And then eventually, I become this person…

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A group for all who use WhatsApp, where you can share your experiences, daydreams and make some friends as well

Posted on July 6, 2021 at 10:30pm 2 Comments

https://chat.whatsapp.com/BePW9JxhYLF5ARHJ9rdZfd

I hope I'm not violating any group policies here. I've found this WhatsApp group for MDers to chat with other MDers, so you can join, if you're interested. Would love to meet some of y'all in there

Edit: https://chat.whatsapp.com/J4iMALtGSVYKLe8aXkU4BD

This is the new link. WhatsApp links are…

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MDers and one sided love/crushes

Posted on June 23, 2021 at 10:38am 3 Comments

I feel that us maladaptive daydreamers have a hard time letting go of any one sided crushes we have than others. Like that person would take over our scenarios very much. It has happened to me when I developed feelings for a girl I had talked quite a bit to, only to find out she was committed to someone else. Sad part is, there were some instances where it seemed like she liked me too and I took it too deep and as you might have guessed, daydreamt an entire life with this person which gave…

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People whose vibe and nature we've wanted to emulate in our MD world (if any)

Posted on May 21, 2021 at 9:23am 4 Comments

Have any of you ever had a person in mind whose vibe or style you've wanted to emulate so much that you end up integrating that vibe into your MD world self? It can be either a celebrity or just any person in your life, whose cool nature we feel like imitating. For me, recently, I've wanted to have the swagger and the attitude of a Pakistani Singer named Imran Khan whom I listen too quite often. He has this really cool confidence which I've always wanted. Do you have anyone like that?

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At 5:19am on July 21, 2021, Ayyob said…
Hey,, can u give the link of watsapp group please?
 
 
 

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