Need relationship/crush advice. Don't know who else to talk to and it's driving me md!

So basically I've stupidly hooked up with a friend whilst drunk a few times. I've had a huge crush on him for a few years but never thought I'd be in with a chance. Im feeling pretty shitty as im now developing feelings for him again and dont wanted be rejected if I was to tell him I like him. He doesn't contact me after our nights together but will speak to me if I see him out. We arent close friends that hang out all the time. Does it sound like it's just a hookup to him or should I tell him I like him knowing there is high chance I will be rejected. Im punching above my weight with him. Also don't want to ruin our friendship.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, can't get the situation off my mind.

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Comment by ume lashun on November 24, 2014 at 8:58am
You guys have only been hooking up. You need to move pass needing him like Henry said. But you can always express how you feel. Rejection stings but it will not kill you and you will know if you need to move on.
Comment by Aquarius on November 24, 2014 at 3:40am

great advice from Henry

Comment by Henry on November 11, 2014 at 4:32am

You don't really need a guy to complete you but there is one advice I want you to read before putting yourself in a situation that you might regret for the rest of your life.

I've heard your story before. That kind of story have been in some movies. But you gotta remember not to want or need him. You have to "Choose" to be with him. A person who wants or needs a boyfriend/girlfriend comes from weakness not power.

It is very important that you take a look inside yourself to find the answer. You should never "need" a boyfriend. You should reach a point in life where you "choose" to have a boyfriend on your terms. And that makes all the difference in the world.

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