Where wild minds come to rest
We all daydream about everything
But most of us have a main character in the midst of things
I am the main character in my day dreams
I daydream i am popular and have a nice girl
So if i get a girl and have a few good friends i can trust on, then I will be happy in real life. In fact, I have some good friends, I just need a girl.
I hate day dreaming
I want a good reality
fuck day dreaming, it leads to nothing in the end except for loneliness and shyness
if we want to be happy with ourselves, we need to accomplish our goals in our daydreams
in other words, accomplish our dreams
once we accomplish our dreams, we will be happy with reality
happiness won't stop our maladaptive daydreaming, but it will make my daydreaming happy and it will help me not daydream as much because i know i can be comfortable in my real life too.
I won't have to daydream about myself and how i need to be more self confident because i will be more self confident. I just need to gain the skills needed, one step at a time.
I need to go to more parties on the weekends and meet more people and more girls. Girls especially.
I need to go to the gym and work out 2-3 times a week so if someone fucks with me, I will beat the shit out of them. I am trying every chance now to play ice hockey too. Ice hockey is something that helps take my mind of daydreaming because I think its fun.
I need to help out more around the house so my parents will know i'm a responsible and caring person. Then this way I can stay out later on the weekends. I love my family. Getting a job made me realize this.
I need to make an effort to talk to people, even people I might not care about because you never know. Not everything I say has to make the other person feel happy or laugh, even though that's what I'm going for. Sometimes I feel like I'm pretending but it helps to just say whats on your mind.
Maladaptive day dreaming is a part of us, its not a bad habit or a personality disorder. I can remember daydreaming when I was young. It just has many negative effects and some positive ones like the ones listed on the home page.
We all need to make something out of ourselves in reality...turn our daydreams into our actual life...then we can be truly happy