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"I feel as if MD has made my life detrimental, instead of amazing and cheerful. All people ever see is that I'm gone and I don't communicate, which is why I have no friends, and even my parents feel blocked off, because I don't share…"
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Jessica Ballantyne commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"I had plans to do a good many things in my 20's. Travel. Marry. Excel in a career. Get a house. Problem is that I was so distracted by my fantasies, that I did nothing about my life. Everybody else I knew grew up and got on with it. But I just…"
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Jessica Ballantyne commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"When I became an adult, I thought I knew what I was doing. I wasn't so sure of myself and what I was capable of. I was excited about doing all the things I wanted to do. However, I wasn't honest with myself. I originally wanted to travel…"
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Varya commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"Yeah, the past is in the past. All we can do now is learn from our mistakes and try new approaches."
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Jessica Ballantyne commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"I spoke to my dad about this. Important thing is that I learned a lot from my past. When I do look back, it's rather poignant and embarrassing. Why would I do that to myself? When I was younger, I had no experience, so I had any idea what I…"
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Varya commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"To me, your current situation doesn't look bad. Although, we live in different countries and I'm younger so I can't understand all aspects of it. But you seem to be a resilient person, so i believe you'll make yourself a life you…"
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"When I attended Art college, I was sort of a free spirit who wanted to make art for a living. I thought my MD wasn't going to effect my future goals. My dad is an architect whose serious about money and good investment, and he had doubts…"
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Varya commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"Yes, i can relate. I also wanted to pursue an artistic career but made several mistakes along the way. As a result I gave up. Although daydreaming wasn't the only problem here. But it started to take a lot of energy from me. And also because of…"
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Jessica Ballantyne commented on Varya's blog post Getting a grip on reality
"Your lucky. At 23 your changing your ways and dissolving your habit of daydreaming. Congratulations. When I was your age, I was at my peak of doing maladaptive daydreaming. I was very naive and believed my dreams were insights telling me of good…"
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"I understand. I felt it the last time. And even now there is a sort of emptiness."
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Getting a grip on reality

Posted on February 20, 2021 at 2:38pm 11 Comments

I'm 23 years old (and it horrifies me). For as long as I can remember i had an overactive imagination. I don'tknow when exactly i started using it as a way to cope with sadness, anger or boredom. Long story short, at 18 i started actually taking responsibility for my life. It changed my view on myself and led to some realisations. Among other things i understood that i spend waay to much time in imaginary worlds. It is unproductive. It damages my life and my relationship with other people. So i… Continue

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