Maladaptive Daydreaming: where wild minds come to rest
I've noticed now that I've become older and much more open about my sexuality (lesbian) that my daydreams are often sexual. Close to anything triggers a sexual daydream for me, a picture of a crush, a picture of a celebrity crush, music, TV shows, you name it! Most of my sexual daydreaming revolves around a celebrity crush of mine, we usually hang around and flirt for a bit until the sexual tendencies kick in for the both of us. The feelings during sex in the daydreams are very vivid and pleasurable to have if I'm in a bad mood or in distress.
Any other dreaming I do is related to the past, or daydreamed conversations with other people including actual friends that I know on the internet but not in person, or with people I know in person who I've spoken to recently where I replay the moment in my mind and just have a conversation with that person about random things.
The only daydreaming I do that I despise is daydreaming about the bad past, talking to bullies who have hurt me or reliving moments where they have and trying to fight back to get away from it.
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I day dream about accomplishing things that would normally make me nervous to try. Such as speaking and performing in public. This can be benifitial, rehearsing things in your head before you act them out.
I day dream about positive and negitive things from the past also. Things I could have done, different outcomes...maybe even revenge.
Sexual day dreams, sure. I can ``fall in love`` on the bus, and think about that person, how life with them would be, things we could do together.
Oh yeah I keep that part in mind too for the future, I always think "Damn one day my creative mind is going to make a girl extremely lucky."
Also yeah they are like a painkiller, I think it's because it takes your mind completely off the pain and sends it somewhere else.
DayglotterIvy said:
I also have a lot of very erotic daydreams. I find these thoughts work like a legitimate painkiller....I recently had a terrible stomach ache combined with nausea and pangs in my forehead. Dreaming up the usual scenarios with the ideal man I've created makes all that stop. I can feel the change in my body- It's like laying on satin sheets in your mind, when your body is lying on wet cement....or something like that! These daydreams also force me to realize what I desire. They are becoming more like ideas for real sexual encounters....which is a damn good thing!
Oh hell yeah! I have a much better developed sense of what I like than most girls do....I also have a very kinky mind. ;) But do most girls know exactly what they desire, or what feels good to them? I doubt it.
Thank god I do not belong to the orgasm-fakers club..... as long as I can save these artfully sexy daydreams until the end of a long day, I will continue to see them as a strength. ;)
Nicole said:
Oh yeah I keep that part in mind too for the future, I always think "Damn one day my creative mind is going to make a girl extremely lucky."
Also yeah they are like a painkiller, I think it's because it takes your mind completely off the pain and sends it somewhere else.
DayglotterIvy said:I also have a lot of very erotic daydreams. I find these thoughts work like a legitimate painkiller....I recently had a terrible stomach ache combined with nausea and pangs in my forehead. Dreaming up the usual scenarios with the ideal man I've created makes all that stop. I can feel the change in my body- It's like laying on satin sheets in your mind, when your body is lying on wet cement....or something like that! These daydreams also force me to realize what I desire. They are becoming more like ideas for real sexual encounters....which is a damn good thing!
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