My sibling and I were arguing over a childhood memory. She then went on to call me a liar. I didn't mind, because I read in an article that siblings in childhood fight over parents attention, in adulthood they fight over memories. Each member of the family can have a different memory of the same event.
I'm taken aback. So some of the terrible memories aren't real?! What about the happy ones? What of those memories in which only two people were there- me and a deceased parent, I can't even have someone corroborate them.
Permalink Reply by S K on November 19, 2013 at 8:50am
I think there is a kernel of truth in each statement so I do think it is partially true. Thinking and re-thinking tends to distort events,especially dramatic situations (whether positive or negative) which have a tendency to stay with us after the event.