I'm curious how do individuals with children especially young ones, manage their MDD? How does it affect their role as a parent? Do their MDDs include their children? I'm not sure if it has been discussed on the forum, I haven't seen any discussions as yet.
If you are a mum or dad with young children, tell me what is it like for you and your MDD?
My youngest of three is now 13 years old, so the hard times are over. I always found it very challenging when the kids were very small, especially my oldest didn' t sleep much during the day and I had no time for myself. Without daydreaming I was in a bad mood, I tried to get a bit of rest by going to the park, or lying down when my husband came from work and took over.
My daydreams don't include an improved Me, but my daydream-charakters lead a very different but also very similar life. The main charakter has now two children, that are more than 10 years younger than my real children, the daydream-baby is now about one year old. So family life is a very important part in my reality and also in dreamland.
During the last years my daydreaming decreased immense - I don't have this big problem anymore that I need much time for it, but daydreams still come every day.