Why'd She Change?

[Hana]

Go all the way back
To 97-98
Think of all the fun
We had as classmates
I couldn't stand you though
Just the look of your face
It said "I'm better than you"
All over the place
And then what happened was
We became best friends
And we would be inseparable
Till the very end

Or so I thought.

Unfortunately when
We reached high school
You learned not to be happy
But instead be cool
After that
You'd never be the same

They say you got popular
To me you got lame
You discovered the magical
World of sex
You thought that's how people
Would like you best
And to the person 
You said was closest to you
You disrespect greatly
And speak the most lies to
You act like things 
Are going so well
Haven't you realized?
I feel like I'm in hell 
So did it all
Go down the drain
Was our friendship
In complete vain
Or was there a hidden message
Telling me not to care
To take a deep breath
And stop pulling out my hair
Yep, by god I think I got it
The moral of the story must be:
DON'T GET SO HUNG UP, FRIENDS ONLY LAST SO LONG.

For the same person I wrote "You Lie so Much, You Believe Yourself" for. We had been friends for so long but it didn't last. But I guess that happens to everyone. People go their separate ways. C'est la vie.

[Hana]

Seriously, this girl's voice and laugh has changed too!!! HAHAHA 

I can relate. My sister and I were always tight. (she daydreams too, in fact we dd together) But she's been dating this guy who has totally changed her. She's all bitchy now. And she's completely lost herself. And I struggle with this so much, mainly because when no one else is around and it's just me and her, we dd together just like old times. It's really difficult for me to see the person I've know all my life change so dramatically when other people are around. Why does she act as though nothing has changed between us when it's only the two of us? Then immediately turn around and treat me like the anti-christ when we're around her boyfriend? She also gets extremely jealous when I hangout with other people. She said something, to my mom, like that I had left her all alone to hangout with a friend and my mom said to her: "You were the one who left her. How many days did you just up and leave her, home alone, so that you could be with him. Of course she's spending time with other people. She had to, she had no one else." And it's totally true. He has her completely whipped. She has to be 100% obedient to him. Has to agree with everything he says and pretty much respond "how high?" when he says "jump."

You can tell just by reading this that I really dislike him. He is causing a wedge between her and our family. He is abusive, arrogant, and steadfast in his ignorance. I can't stand him for what he has turned my sister into. But I am just as equally annoyed with her and how she allowed him to take advantage of her.

(Mini rant)

[BilboBaggins]

Hey. I know exactly how you feel. Five or six years ago I became friends with someone and I was sure it would be forever. We literally spent almost every day for two years together and never became sick of eachother or anything. Neither of us were popular, but it didn't matter cause we had fun. We'd skip school to go on random adventures and have mud fights in the rain (We were mid teens, I'm 18 now.) Then she got a boyfriend. (Isn't that how it always goes?) And honestly, it was fine at first. Her boyfriend and I were friends (I thought) but he turned out to be really manipulative and she slowly started to distance from me. Even then it didn't bother me cause I knew that they wouldn't be together forever and we'd still be friends. And we were after they broke up, but then she went to a new school and met some new friends. I still can't believe how different she is. She acts and dresses totally different and fake, even hervoiceand laugh has changed. I try not to be harsh about people, but she's a fake bitch. I was really upset about it for awhile, but now looking at old pictures of us don't bother me, cause I've accepted that the girl I knew is gone.

[Hana]

We actually started talking again, but I wouldn't say we're friends again. But yea, I prefer to daydream now too.