Maladaptive Daydreaming: where wild minds come to rest
Okay, so I have many different fantasies about a particular series of books and I believe that the characters within them are alive. I can even call one a best friend and another a lover. I think that something big has to happen for them to 'come rescue' me. Stupid, right? Yeah, I really have to get over this.
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Regarding books: Some novels I've read have been so compelling that I feel like I'm in the story myself, and want to add to the plot line .. some movies too (though with film it's ususally after the film is over). I've long been under the impression that 'normal' people rarely feel this immersed in a good story.
I've had to train myself NOT to get carried away with my wanting to do this. It's like 'just reading' a novel, or watching a film isn't good enough. I don't want to be just an audience member, I want to be on stage myself.
What helps me stay focused on actual life is to see how my own life is a story in itself.
Also, considering the reasons humanity has developed stories in the first place, I see story-telling as a way to express the truth about ourselves in a safe setting, when acting on the truths we feel within may not be such a safe thing to do?
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