Guys

[Artemis]

OK so I am forever confused by guys. I have been talking to this guy online and I really like him and I think he likes me but how can I be sure? Also, he lives in a different country so its not like anything could happen anyway. I have noticed when I go to town on my own, with my brother or my Mum that guys check me out. Even the people with me notice it, the thing is I feel violated when they do this, like don't check me out, I'm not a piece of meat up for sale! I feel like I am too young for a boyfriend but am also perpetually sad without one. I have always dreamed of having a soul-mate and waiting until marriage to have you-know-what but all my friends tell me that no guy is ever going to want to wait for me so I don't know what to do! I am only 16, I probably shouldn't even be thinking about all this shizzle but I feel so lonely all the time it makes me want to cry...

Sorry about the depressing nature of this post people :-(

[Artemis]

Talking not taking, sorry.

[Artemis]

Yup that's exactly what I am taking about. Although my problem is making my brows thinner not thicker :-)

[Mишка (Miska)]

I am 16 as well and I feel exactly the same!! My friends say I should be flattered but I feel gross if a guy checks me out. The other day I shaved off my brows (because I want them to grow thicker) and I went swimming. I didn't shave my legs (actually I'm not really hairy) and I wore my bikini. It was an inside swimming pool... So the life guard at the pool -a hot chick with lady muscles- was surrounded with guys when we (my family) got there and suddenly the guys stopped talking to her.. ? I just got some floaties for the baby and we were all having so much fun when the guard came over and said we couldn't use the public swim toys!! I just gave"em back to her and she put them in the basket but then- *gasp* she put a broom through the basket to prevent me from using the noodles(a helpful device for babies who can't swim!) i just didn't care enough though and dived about the pool. Oddly a lot of cute guys sat on the pool side near where I was swimming? I say cute cause they were guys who work out in the gym where the pool is. So they were muscly and 'cuter' than guys I usually see at public pools. Anyways they kept staring at me. I thought it was my browlessness but then I realized that they were staring at me with that icky pervy look and my googles covered my brow anyways so I was feeling a bit exposed bodily...the worst part was that my mum confirmed my thoughts.... She also said that the lifeguard was rude to is because I was with us, apparently I stole her attention. I can't help but go over her rudeness in my daydreams over and over. Life is so stupid! It's not like I'm a hot older lady with work out chick muscles. All I do is eat all the fruit I can find and all the yummy things and then pace and run about my room, I guess that's what keeps me so skinny. I actually underweight according to my age group. I weigh ~86 pounds and I'm just naturally skinny and short. Hmmm seems silly that she a lifeguard/gym trainer, might be jello of me a plain non-weight concerned girl who's skinny. I doesn't help that I can only swim backwards...

[Artemis]

Awww!!!! Thank you for the advice :-)