Am I going to be alone for the rest of my life?

I was just wondering. All my characters in my daydreams have a significant other. I may have family and friends who love me, but I don't have that one person. What really gets me is this: I'm like 100% okay with being single. I actually prefer to be single. I guess the romance I create in my head is enough for me. 

Is this wrong? I don't want to have a boyfriend because in my head I'm already involved with so many other people..... And now, I'm starting to wonder if the reason I'm okay with my fake relationships is because I'm a control freak or something. Like is it because I have complete control over every aspect of my imaginary relationships that I don't want a real one? But maybe it's not that at all. Maybe it's because I have so many that starting a real relationship would just tired me.

I don't know. As of right now, I'm okay with being single. But I'm worried that I'm going to be thinking "as of right now" for the rest of my life.

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Comment by Roobles on May 5, 2012 at 3:39pm
Don't worry. I don't think u need to rush into a relationship for the sake of being single or being the only one in social group single.
I was exactly the Same. All my mates had boyfriends and was dating and I never had a boyfriend I never was that bothered So much people thought i was asexual or liked girls. But i had my dd like you but one day when I was 18 I met this boy who was 20 and that changed my whole outlook on dating and relationships. And I married him a year after and still happy married 5 years later.

Don't worry about it now ur mind may change when u find someone but as for now don't bother with societys expectations just live for yourself and make yourself happy whether it is dd or not.
Comment by LivingInA Bubble on May 5, 2012 at 2:24pm

wow, i can actually totally relate to that! most of my daydreams are based around the person im crushing on at that moment in time.....usualy celebrities. most of my friends are in relationships and that makes me feel like i wanna be in one too sometimes....but my mind gets me through it. i feel like as long as i have those relationships i daydream about, then i dont need to worry about being single or finding the right person because i can just daydream about it instead! positives about daydreaming are that u can control everything that happens so im starting to think that a real relationship wouldnt work as i would focus on the flaws of the person, and wonder why there not good enough as they are in my daydreams!

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