I have a few different DD scenarios that I cycle through & over an undetermined course of time will switch over to the next. Lately though I've had a difficult time getting that connectedness feeling once I've move to my next scenario. When this occurs, I feel as though I'm suspended in space & it's terribly unnerving. Not sure what I can do to change this but I'm open to suggestions.

I was thinking about the people we MDDers have in our daydreams. For me, in my DD world I am just an improvenet of the current model; thinner, more fit, talented, funny, & intelligent. As your ideal self, do you find your preferences in men/woman change? Maybe you feel more apt to approach someone 'out of your league'?

Floating in that in between phase where I'm not fully committed to a DD scenario. I hate not having a scenario to invest my time & mental energy in. I've got several good stand-buys to choose from but I'm not feeling emotionally linked with them yet. I feel like I'm alone & am unsure how to rectify the matter.

So I was just thinking about time as it relates to daydreaming. Right now I'm in my late 30's, so scenarios have changed from when I was in my 20's. As I grow older, what will the dynamics look like I wonder? Will I age in my DD as I do in reality? Will I fancy older men as love interests?

I've been on Wildminds for quite some time now & I've noticed a large number of people hate their DDing & want it to stop. That is not the case for me. I very much enjoy my DDing & feel it provides me solace. It's annoying then when reality interferes, making DDing difficult. Even if it's a positive life event, it throws off my regular DDing habits. A friend of mine is trying to get me on a blind date with her husbands friend. This is annoying on multiple levels. It derails my… Continue

This may or may not sound completely bizarre, but I just found my engagement ring for my daydream relationship. Not the actual ring mind you, but a picture of it in a magazine that stuck me so beautiful that I chose it to be daydream me's engagement ring. Not sure whats more sad; that I picked a ring for a fantasy relationship or the level of excitement it gave me. It was like completing a new chapter in my daydream world.

Daydreaming is one of the few things I look forward to doing. It keeps me sane & makes me happy to an extent. I don't have much variation in my life, so any change throws off my DD game. Recently, someone from my past resurfaced & expressed interest in me; said he had always been interested actually, since we first met nearly 14 years ago. One of the reasons I DD is because I'm terrified of putting myself out there & risking giving my heart to someone, only to inevitably be hurt. I… Continue

Not sure if this is going to come out right, but here goes. I've been daydreaming since I was a kid; the scenario always involved an ideal version of me falling in love & going on various adventures. These daydreams had nothing to do with my reality. Lately though, I've been wanting something different. I want a character that can accompany me in the real world. I can't bring any of the DD charactors that I've already established to the real world because they only see the ideal me. I'd… Continue

My head has been in a weird space lately. Can't identify what triggered the change, but I felt a noticeable shift about three weeks ago. I'd just moved away from one DD scenario & when I went to make the jump to another world, I couldn't connect with it. It was quite disconcerting & I felt as though I were in some strange limbo. When the connection with the new DD didn't occur, I thought that perhaps I wasn't ready to leave my previous DD. When I revisited that world, I felt just as… Continue

I'm in that awful in-between phase where I'm bored with my current daydream but can't seem to sync up with a new one. I loathe being in this place. I feel almost lost, like after a break-up and your day-to-day life shifts around, if that makes sense. Inspiration has been hard to come by and as bored as I am, I'm still very attached to my current scenario. Ugh. Just frustrated. The end.

I happened upon some fan fiction on my current romantic interest in my daydreams & I SO should not have read any of that. As pathetic as it sounds, reading about him being intimate with another woman made me feel sick. I know it sounds silly; he's a character on a (now canceled) TV series. Fans of the show are bound to write about his character. I guess I just need to stay away from reading the ones of him being paired with someone else.