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Without Friends

It seems that have difficulties to make friends and the difficulty to connect with other persons is a common denominator between Maladaptive Daydreamers.

Nevermind is it is due to social inability, a side effect of daydreaming or that we are too much time away of “this world”, and that when “we come back to earth” we don´t have enough experience.

Now we have a forum, a Meeting point, a place with people like us. Daydreamers without friends. Perhaps this group is not a  good place to make friends. Provably. But who knows?

Members: 140
Latest Activity: Feb 24

Discussion Forum

Jobs

Started by Jacob P John. Last reply by Deanna Jan 10, 2021. 5 Replies

What type of occupation would suit for people like us ? . I would really like to do a job where communication skills are not much required. Any suggestionsContinue

Intro: Only ever had one friend.

Started by Andigamous Gladchester. Last reply by Jonathan M Sep 9, 2018. 1 Reply

Hi,I go by Andi.  The last friend I had was in 4th grade I think.  I started with MD before then, though, but it was mostly confined to recess at school, and when I was alone at home.My friend (we'll…Continue

My DD story

Started by SuSu. Last reply by SuSu Aug 5, 2018. 2 Replies

Hello there!So, I am a MD, I have been a MD for so long, longer than I can remember, at one point I decided to google my symptoms and found out that I am a MD.I was disappointed, I thought something…Continue

Some help

Started by noor. Last reply by Xander Jul 6, 2018. 6 Replies

There is anyone want to speak with me , I am now in new countary , it is really hard to find friends , since I was child , I have maladaptive daydreaming , now I have no friends and my situation is…Continue

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Comment by Arnold on January 13, 2021 at 10:14am

I think I am alone. No one understands What i am I always keep it a secret. Can't speak to anyone After I met this place It makes me feel good that I'm not the only one. Facing this [I'm not good at English]

 

Comment by Rosa Fox on December 4, 2020 at 6:49am

If you want someone to talk to to send me a private message! I will gladly answer!

Comment by Xander on June 11, 2018 at 3:49pm

I don't care if you message me. I don't care if you forget about me. I just care that you read this message. Hi. My name is Xander. I have a lot of family issues and mental trauma. I've experienced being cheated on more than once, friendship breakups, loneliness, stuff, and more stuff. This post is special. It is meaningful. This post will carry the last of me.

 

~your average lone wolf.

Comment by StarryStarryNight on January 19, 2017 at 8:29pm

I have always surrounded myself with small groups of friends, which is easily managable. No body knows that I do this, but I think it's starting to become obvious, I try to stop it but I think its the main reason not many people want to be friends with me. Big groups of people are my worst nightmare, I'll just sit their quietly in the corner and let everyone do their thing, but I always catch people looking at me weird which makes me think i'm doing something that i''m not aware of. The friends I do have, i love to pieces but I dont feel like I can talk to them about it so I do feel very isolated. 

Comment by Kema on January 7, 2017 at 10:27am
Hi! I have problems making deep profound connections with friends because of MDD, while I have no problems making superficial friends I would rather have best friends, the ones I had I lost them because I rather be daydreaming. I would really like to meet someone wi MDD to share experiences and be friends :)
Comment by Colette on October 7, 2015 at 1:18pm

I developed my MDD because i lost all my friends and this was how I coped. 

Comment by escarei on September 1, 2015 at 11:43pm
When I joined this group I felt alone and I only had one best friend. Now I have a lot of friends and even if I still have some issues actually writing to them or calling them, it's amazing that when I do call them, they are there for me. We didn't meet in the last five years? Who cares, we can still go and get a drink somewhere and reconnect. I was amazed, but it really works like this. I'm probably not their first choice when they think about going out, but it's okay. When I need them they are there for me and I hope one day they will need me too. I have to work hard to get there, but it's worth it.
Comment by Regen on September 1, 2015 at 8:33pm

Hi everyone! I feel so identified with this, I dont even know where to start. I have very complicated feelings with the very concept of friendship. I have always felt left out by my friends, like if i was a zero to the left or something. I have never been able to have that kind of close bound with other people, because opening my heart is so hard, and anxiety avoids me from talking to people and making new friends. So, of course, I feel lonely and daydreaming has been a coping mechanism for my loneliness. My characters are symbols of the close relationship I wish I had.

Comment by Leigh-anne on July 27, 2015 at 3:22pm

Hi! I'm new here and it's just so nice to read about other's experience with MD. I don't really have friends either, but it doesn't really bother me either. Sometimes I do get very lonely and wish I could meet someone like myself but then, If they were like me, we would probably just be very quiet friends. I hate small talk, it seems so pointless to me. I would gladly discuss/debate an interesting intelligent  topic but most people don't seem to think much about anything! How do they DO that???  I can't stop thinking! I often ponder about life, the human condition, why we are here ect. and then off course there are my dreams - they are so absolutely wonderful!  They are the only part of my life that isn't serious. To be honest, although I'm a very responsible person,  I actually hate being an adult!!!  It's just so boring, restrictive and uninteresting. I am so glad to be here

  

Comment by Tia Joseph on February 17, 2015 at 7:51am

I have a few friends, but don't feel close to them like the way I feel should, which is in part due to the daydreaming I think. It's ironic b/c I'll often daydream about having friends and great, close relationships but in reality that is not the case

 

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