Imaginary Boyfriend

[Teagan Heart]

Has anyone ever had or is currently having an imaginary boyfriend/girlfriend? If so, do you ever catch yourself acting or talking out loud?

[Pseudo Life]

Gosh, I wish we could change the title of this posting.  My husband's printer is not working so he keeps sending his stuff to me and then comes  to my office to print it. Imaginary boyfriend - I'm not ready to explain that one.

 

What does it mean when someone asks to be your friend on this network. 

 

 

[sasi]

I can't begin to think of a good cover up story for that scenario. Best I can come up with is a sudden interest in creative writing and discussing " imaginary boyfriend" as character plot. Hmmm not that convincing. My husband knows that I dd but not the entire specifics. He can be really helpful in grounding me if I get too caught up in dd world. Would you ever want or need to tell your husband?

Pseudo Life said:

Gosh, I wish we could change the title of this posting.  My husband's printer is not working so he keeps sending his stuff to me and then comes  to my office to print it. Imaginary boyfriend - I'm not ready to explain that one.

 

What does it mean when someone asks to be your friend on this network. 

 

 

[roxanne]

Well, we could always change the name, I suppose.

[J Noland]

I've had several imaginary boyfriends and/or husbands. One particular one has been around in my dd's for at least 20 years. I am not married or in a relationship right now but the dd boyfriends don't seem to cause real life trouble until a relationship starts to sour. I'm sure it would be easier to fall for a real man if I wasn't already "in love" with my imaginary boyfriend but it isn't bothering be lately. It can be distressing at other times though. 

[1nmiirc70dne4]

Since my daydreams are not about me, 'I' don't have one. But usually my Day dreaming people, there names are Judd (I pernouse the name like Jude because I didn't know how to say the name becuz I was only 11) Ryan, and Lionel (which I call Lonely because I had just skimmed threw his name not bothering to try to learn how to say it right) if ur wondering there charecters from a book series (4o books) there's A LOT more people in the series but 4 main charecters (Ryan dies so 3) exept I only focus on the three. Anyways.....its always about Judd (Jude) and the other main charecter Vicki in a realation ship. That's the only 'realationship I daydream about. But I love there realation ship :) in the book when Judd (Jude) got a DIFFRENT girlfriend I litterally had an emotional breakdown like it was real. It still hurts to think about it.. Thow she died and at the end of the 38 book he married Vicki :) Lionel (Lonely) and Ryan NEVER! Have any kind of realationship with girls. I also had an emotional breakdown when it said on wikipedia that he (Ryan) was interested in a girl but died b4 they became a couple which was NOT true and I earased it. So ya. I do daydream about realationships but only with Judd (Jude) and Vicki :)

[Pseudo Life]

  He has his own printer now.   And I know he would never ask - at least so I think.  I do like the creating writing approach.   maybe I could be working on a romance novel.  Most of my stuff is on my phone. I have  two property finders looking for 3 million pounds and up for a London flats. And my wardrobe organized by season and function in a passworded photo album. Fav songs are on a playlist.  Amazing.  never could have done this ten years ago.

sasi said:

I can't begin to think of a good cover up story for that scenario. Best I can come up with is a sudden interest in creative writing and discussing " imaginary boyfriend" as character plot. Hmmm not that convincing. My husband knows that I dd but not the entire specifics. He can be really helpful in grounding me if I get too caught up in dd world. Would you ever want or need to tell your husband?

Pseudo Life said:

Gosh, I wish we could change the title of this posting.  My husband's printer is not working so he keeps sending his stuff to me and then comes  to my office to print it. Imaginary boyfriend - I'm not ready to explain that one.

 

What does it mean when someone asks to be your friend on this network. 

 

 

[littleschrodinger'scat]

I have never really incorporated the "me" in reality into my daydreams, so no. I have given the "me" in my head a boyfriend in the past, when I was around 10 ( I realize now that relationships really aren't my thing ). When I was 7, my world was about Harry Potter, and I remember I was acting everything out on our playscape in the backyard, alone. I think that is the only time I have really acted it out, but I do find myself making the facial expressions of my characters or saying one of their lines occassionally.

[Em]

Oh my gosh. That's hilariously genius!!!

I talk to myself a lot when I'm by myself, so that would definitely lessen the awkwardness when I get walked in on.

Teagan Heart said:

Yeah, sometimes I think that I should get a blue tooth and wear it on my ear to act like I'm talking to someone.

[Em]

Well, my daydreams are usually pretty close to reality but with a few things altered. If I am attracted to someone, I wouldn't go as far as to imagine that they are my boyfriend.

Maybe, I would imagine a conversation that was flirtier in nature than usual or imagine getting stuck in a small space with them (like an elevator or broom closet) where we would have a good chance of having an intimate conversation together.

But I never make up completely fictitious people. The people I imagine always have a face in reality. But they're just as fictitious as a made up person because the version of them that's in my head is still imaginary.