Love advice?

[otakugirl]

My DD has stopped for now... Since I have now been running with some friends. Running has tooken DD off my mind and my crush has too. When things are going great I have no desire to DD I just DD here and there about my crush but not about my world which is good but now my happiness is kinda coming undone. I am kinda worried I will be going back to DD. The only reason my happiness is going away is homework stress and my crush haha. So I would like some advice to help me get closer to my crush (I know this isnt really the place to get that type of advice but I need help) So me and him dont talk well we did in the begining of the year but not no more. I just dont have confidence he smiled at me once but I am pretty sure that was just to be nice. I have a feeling he doesnt like me since he doesnt look at me. I also have a feeling     his friend likes me which would suck. Anyway I am thinking of textin him for a class related question... think I should do it? Any advice? Please help thanks :)

[otakugirl]

Thanks everyone for you advice and support! This really helped me gain some courage!

[Forget-Me-Not Fairy]

Glad you're getting a hold on it! :D Wish I could say the same thing! Your message made me smile :) Just start with the talking and a bit a flirting won't hurt if you feel comfortable doing it :) Get to know him a bit before coming out and telling him all your feelings.... You never know, once getting to know him he may turn out to be a bit of an arse... or at least turn out not be the person you think he is... My day dreaming normally revolves around people I fancy/have a crush on... for ages it revolved around this guy I had fancied at school... One day (pretty recently actually) I took the plunge and spoke to him over the internet... after a few conversations I'm now completely over him... don't think about him what-so-ever :D however, sadly my energy has very recently turned to somebody else.... definitely need to nip it in the bud!

Good Luck in the world of romance :D Enjoy it! ;)

xxx 

[Will Paine]

Do not beat around the bush to much... That is all I have to say. Get him while he is there/ available. Otherwise you will regrt it further down the road.

[Amanda Lynne]

It's so good that you've gotten daydreaming off your mind lately! When our lives become more fulfilling than our daydreams, that's a real sucess right there.

 

& I know what you mean about the stress about how you're scared you'll DD again. Sometimes I get scared and depressed and think that this is something I'll have to fight forever, but I think that overtime we can kick the habit for real.

 

About your homework stress and crush problems making you unhappy, don't let them! Be glad that you have some things in real life to focus on and worry about.

 

okay, here's your crush advice: haha, I'm in a similar situation. This guy liked me and always tried to talk to me, but I was always nervous to talk back and I think he kinda lost hope on me talking after a while, can't blame him. I'm sure he would love for you to go up and talk to him. & if he doesn't, oh well, at least you can't say you didn't try! This is what I'm trying to work up the nerve to do. You don't have to go up to him and be like "Hey, I like you!" Just say "hey" and make conversation and take stuff slow :) And if he ends up not liking you, it's no big deal, there's tons of fish in the sea :) Sorry if that wasn't helpful ): Good luck girl

[Liza Maria Medina]

Hi there, well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he was the one who asked me out but if I had to give advice I'd say to just be honest and tell him  you like him. You don't have to do it right away, start with class questions, ask him about his interests, if he likes you at all he'll ask you questions as well. After some conversation maybe some flirting you should just ask him go running with you to go to dinner, hopefully he says yes and you can tell him about your feelings.  It's better to know sooner if he doesn't like you so you can move on to someone else who does.

I agree that when things are happy you don't want to DD anymore, when I first started dating my boyfriend I hardly had time to DD and it was great but after awhile it started to come back and you can't assume a relationship will help it go away for good, it's something you deal with for your whole life, or at least that's been my experience. Don't beat yourself up if this guy doesn't like you.

You seem young and you'll meet a lot of guys you like in life so don't stress over this one. Good luck and I hope he does like you as much as you like him!