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Does anyone find themselves daydreaming about a certain person a lot.

Hi, I am new to all this..like many I am finding out, I have heroic daydreams, etc.

Lately I have found myself daydreaming about a man who doesn't even barely know me.

I met him briefly and have had no contact after that...yet he is in constant daydreams.

what is up with that??

BTW: I am 57 yrs old, so it's not like I have a teen crush

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Comment by Jane Wilson on May 23, 2011 at 3:49am
It may not be a teen crush but it is definately an infation.  Last one (maybe only one) I had was when I was 26, the man never knew I existed.  Swore I would never go there again, and I am now 56.  Was that a bad decision?  I only know when I allow my emotions to focus on a real person , I am always hurt, disappointed.  You get to the point where you just don't want to deal with the pain.
Comment by Anonymous on May 21, 2011 at 7:09am

Your right, I am doing some research on this subject now...i coach people with unworthiness and self sabotage issues and I think this might be a direct link

because you are not feeling that great about yourself or your life situation you daydream about a much better one where you receive affection, praise, recognition, etc

Comment by Jaidyn on May 21, 2011 at 5:57am

I do this too.  I think it is actually because I barely know someone that they become the center of my DDs.  I'll often meet someone new, and something about them will intrigue  me.  Maybe a smile or facial expression that in reality is just a politeness, but I take that small thing and make a whole personality out of it.  It's like it gives me a canvas to start from.  If it is a person who continues to be a part of my life after, and I get to know the real them even a little bit that character goes away.

It does make me feel silly, like I'm obsessing over someone I don't even know.  Although the character isn't that person at all.  

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