Hi, I am new to all this..like many I am finding out, I have heroic daydreams, etc.

Lately I have found myself daydreaming about a man who doesn't even barely know me.

I met him briefly and have had no contact after that...yet he is in constant daydreams.

what is up with that??

BTW: I am 57 yrs old, so it's not like I have a teen crush