Maladaptive Daydreaming: where wild minds come to rest
You guys. When you start MDD, it will make you feel happy to live in them. Though, overtime MDD grows and you go to sleep, forgetting all about life. It effects everything, including your relationships, social life, education and career. After you do quit and wake up, you'll feel either overwhelmed, disturbed or sad. If you're a fresh MDD'er, please quit now. You'll have a much better and normal life if you do. If you keep away, you'll learn to appreciate real life.
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I stopped MDD completely this autumn. I don't let myself get carried into stimulating dreams. Over a year earlier, when I first woke up, I was screaming my head off (on the inside). I was so disgusted, and still am, that whatever went on my head wasn't supposed to guarantee anything will come true, and instead I wound up in real big trouble. I remember how many people who were telling me and even gave me the body language to wake the fuck up. I didn't take the red flags so seriously, because I was just a kid, having no experience in the world. I just wanted to have fun and be with my friends. Popular movies and songs were coming out and they all fed into my head too much. Soon, I didn't take a damn thing in life seriously, all except for my imagination. So, I was still immature into my 20's. Now in my adulthood, I deeply regret not staying with it and taking far more responsibility in life.
Now in my early thirties, I have this grasp of reality that I never knew before. It blows my mind, and reminds me what kind of a world I lived in. I realize what I've done was not cool and it didn't help others learn about me better, because I was so preoccupied in my head and unsocial. It used to make me an very quiet person too. I didn't even care to think what that must look to someone from the outside.
I finally have an idea of what to do for a career. It's just climbing the ladder that's the big challenge. Looking forward to independence is like chasing a rainbow. My emotions are getting happier and I do see a light ahead.
All it takes is confidence and high spirit to reach your goals. You just have to keep on trying.
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And stay strong, dont go back to that opressive prison called MDD.
Eduardo Anderson said:
I had this experience recently too
I’ve been trying to quit for years to no avail
But this week I had been good and cut down on the daydreaming and is been the worst week mentally for me
I’ve been extremely sad and very overwhelmed
I guess MDD Is like a wool over your life
Once you remove it
Everything comes rushing in
And it’s not pretty
I quit MDD as much as possible, so I don't live in alternative worlds anymore, but I still dream regularly at moments in the day. I kind of outgrew that stuff, now being in my 30's. I more interested in world events and true stories these days.
I noticed that my fantasy worlds did not help me out, and eventually they left me in the dark. My wishful thoughts did not come true, but instead I was faced with a real nightmare after the damage MDD has put on my life. I was so disgusted, mad and shocked. I have no relationships and no friends. I'm not successful and independent. It is a mess. Many people have wondered if I was OK, because my actions were very strange. I'm sure they thought I was bonkers.
Moral of the story. If you really want something or someone. Do NOT daydream. It will just ruin your life. It's like being drunk on your feet all day. People have actually caught me doing it and tried to wake me up. I should've have listened to them, but I was in denial. I loved my dreams. They made me happy. But, they're not real, and they'll make your life worse overtime.
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Thank You for sharing I would strongly reccomend reading and sharing this amazing article, linked below.
https:/condor-pacific.com/can-nootropics-help-with-maladaptive-daydreaming/
And stay strong, dont go back to that opressive prison called MDD.