Even when I'm not daydreaming

[Silver Swan]

Even if I'm not daydreaming, people still find out fast that I'm drifting. They still notice my eyes look dazed and then act on it. I will just be thinking hard about something and my eyes will just stare at an object for a while, such as the TV set. Or sometimes, I will be awake to my surroundings, but my doped eyes won't catch up. So, some will bring up that they can't tell if I'm listening—or if I'm gone. I find this unstoppable and frustrating.

Can you guys advise me how to train my eyes to look in shape when people are around?

[Filly]

Focus on the person you are listening to
My guy looks right thru me it feels like he is seeing inro my soul