Maladaptive Daydreaming: where wild minds come to rest
Hello everyone. I hope you people are good :) ...i am going through a confusion that i hope you guys can clear for me. I started mding some 8 years ago and it does affect my day to day routine. Iam 22 year old . So the confusion is wether iam in love or not because the guy i think iam in love with is a part of my fantasy world as well as real world. But i feel emotionally attached to my md character where as the real one, i feel emotions for him very rarely. I just am confused because that real guy proposed me and iam reluctant t say yes because i don't want to suffer the illusion of this later in my life. May be i just love my MD guy or may be i like the real one as well but iam confused like hell... any suggestions????????????
i Think : no body is Perfect at all. so of course your DD guy is Completely Perfect , and the real one is Imperfect just as all of us . so of course you think you like the DD one more than the real one .
try to point out what do you like in your DD one and improve it in your real one . For example : if your DD guy loves Pets and your real one doesn't love pets ...try to make him own a pet and get closer to pets.
I think you should give it a shot but try to keep the expectations developed in MDing separate during your dates as you get to know him.I think you like the real guy - that's why he became the basis of your dreams and are in love/extremely attached to the MD guy because you can mould him to suit and fit all your needs. Remember they are two separate people.
I have dd about a guy in the real world whom I haven't seen in years. If I had a chance to have a shot with someone in the real world on whom my fantasies are based I would at least try.
thaks for your suggestions guys :) ...