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Valkyrie replied to F J's discussion "Idealized self" in the group Write your dd plots
"I am always in my DD, that is the only  ways I can get into the story!"
Jul 13, 2016
Fallen Messenger commented on F J's blog post Vicious cycle
"I told my super close friends my secret, and I only have three secrets, so it's kinda big, but I never regret it, for one of my friends is clinically depressed, the other is half-goth, and the other... well I told her because she knows another…"
Mar 6, 2016
F J commented on F J's blog post Vicious cycle
"Aw thanks for the replies and advice guys! Mubashra that is so true I should try and participate in activities, I've been thinking of  hobbies I might start so I'll definitely try being around people more thanks :) Source - I've…"
Feb 27, 2016
Ali liked F J's blog post Vicious cycle
Feb 25, 2016
Source commented on F J's blog post Vicious cycle
"In order to be able to live in the real world, you have to find a spot in it where you can live. Be it an actual place or a certain kind of company or whatever it is, you have to find it first, and you're the only one who can know what it is.…"
Feb 25, 2016
F J commented on PurpleAvalonic's blog post Losing Out On Life
"I feel the exact same way. I've felt like this for a very long time too. I don't know how I managaed to graduate haha! I felt like I worked harder than everyone else sometimes. You're right you can do this x"
Feb 24, 2016
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Vicious cycle

I want to get this off my chest as I don't talk about my MD to people I know....I feel like my low self confidence causes me to daydream a lot abd in turn my daydreams cause me to have low self confidence... Hence the title - vicious cycle!Any advice on how to break it... I just wanna be brave and confident in myself enough to live in the real world.See More
Feb 24, 2016
F J commented on F J's blog post Boredom/Too much free time
"That's a great idea Roel. I used to write poetry when I felt low and it helped a lot. My mind races with thoughts when I DD so I'll definitely try and write something creative. Thanks for the advice :)"
Dec 10, 2015
Roel commented on F J's blog post Boredom/Too much free time
"maybe try to convert some dreams into art? Many people here write or draw or paint or... Unless you find that even more boring, you can give yourself something to do this way; whenever yiu dream of something, write it down or draw it or- It's…"
Dec 9, 2015
F J replied to F J's discussion "Idealized self" in the group Write your dd plots
"That sounds really fascinating to me as I have never DD'd without being in it or it at least being about me. Maybe I have serious esteem issues or something..."
Dec 8, 2015
F J liked F J's discussion "Idealized self"
Dec 8, 2015
F J commented on F J's blog post Boredom/Too much free time
"Yeah that sounds about right. It's probably my social anxiety that's the biggest cause and boredom that's the biggest trigger."
Dec 8, 2015
Bee replied to F J's discussion "Idealized self" in the group Write your dd plots
"I'm never in mine - I just don't fit in that world. To each his own I suppose. I love hearing how everyone here see they're world. :)"
Dec 8, 2015
Bee liked F J's discussion "Idealized self"
Dec 8, 2015
Roel replied to F J's discussion "Idealized self" in the group Write your dd plots
"I am rarely part of my own daydreams. I'm just not that interesting of a subject ;) Don't worry about it being embarrassing, no one judges ;)"
Dec 8, 2015
Source commented on F J's blog post Boredom/Too much free time
"Boredom and free time aren't causes, just triggers. Being bored isn't enough of a reason to infest your mind with self-shattering virtual worlds. Something happened, or is happening to you that is significant enough to cause it, but it…"
Dec 8, 2015

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Vicious cycle

Posted on February 24, 2016 at 4:41pm 4 Comments

I want to get this off my chest as I don't talk about my MD to people I know....

I feel like my low self confidence causes me to daydream a lot abd in turn my daydreams cause me to have low self confidence... Hence the title - vicious cycle!

Any advice on how to break it... I just wanna be brave and confident in myself enough to live in the real world.

Boredom/Too much free time

Posted on December 7, 2015 at 12:08pm 7 Comments

I've concluded boredom and too much free time is the biggest cause for my day dreams.

It started when I was younger as an escape from bullying and social anxiety and now I use it for escape, comfort and entertainment.

Any tips on how to keep myself busy to stop doing it so much??? Desperately looking for a graduate job... but for an English student with social anxiety and poor communication skills it's not the easiest of tasks!

Dealing with MD...

Posted on January 8, 2015 at 6:08pm 4 Comments

Hi all,

I was wondering what your best ways to handle MD in your day to day lives are?

I am struggling to minimise my daydreaming and I do not want it to take over my life.

It can help and be a source of creativity, comfort and escape but I would like to hear some

suggestions of how to fantasize less so I can enjoy the moments and people around me, if you have any...

Thanks guys and have a good day! :)

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