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I have a habit of lying to everyone I know. Have I ever talked to you? If so I have probaby lied to you. It can be about anything, insignificant, or crucial. What I just relaized is that I will lie to other people in my daydreams. As weird as that is.

Apart from that in my sleeping dreams I often lie to and argue with the other people in them. It's the strangest thing, I guess after a while lying became normal to me, so now my unconcious considers it normal as well.

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Comment by Aquarius on November 29, 2012 at 6:20am

@Marcus- its become a coping mechanism for you. Just like MDD is for some of us. You seemed bothered by it though. what are you planning to do about it?

Comment by Marcus Camby on November 28, 2012 at 2:53pm

@Aquarius

I like lying. And I don't feel guilt when I lie.

When I was young, I used to lie to impress my friends and teachers. Now my lies are more of a survival kind of thing. I lie to pass classes, hide vices, and avoid difficult situations. However I also lie about small stupid things.

I know that lyign is wrong, but I have never felt bad about doing it, even when I was younger.

Comment by Aquarius on November 28, 2012 at 12:28pm

Marcus, why do you think you need to lie? And what specifically do you lie about.

I knew this guy who lied when he was afraid, because he was afraid to be wrong or not be upto someone's expectations. I would lie about my dad's job - he was ill and didn't work so I would make up a story. but that was way back. Now its mostly little white lies in professional matters, but i hate that and try not to do so.

You need to start somewhere to put a stop to it. Why should you? because if you dont you wont know who you are anymore. And thats very important

Comment by Jade on November 28, 2012 at 6:50am
I use to often lie when I was younger. Because my life to me wasn't as good as everyone else's or as interesting. I use to make up
things to make me and my life more interesting. I wasn't and still not proud of it but I couldn't stop doing it. I think as I started to grow up I realised I was different in a lot I did so I needed to make up a facade as a barrier between the real me and the made up me x
Comment by Shadow Cat Sam on November 28, 2012 at 3:19am

I don't like lying.

I grew up lying. Pretending that I was normal. Pretending that  I didn't DD. Pretending that my family was normal. Pretending that I had nothing to lie about. As an adult I worked in fields that had "master deceiver" as a prerequisite.  I am a truly gifted at lying. 

The vast majority of people that think of them selves as honest are lying to themselves. 

Comment by romanticlazy on November 27, 2012 at 6:29am

It doesn't matter for me not becoz you and I ain't know each other in real life but it's becoz I don't think it's necessary if you'd lie or not. Personally I don't believe in truth. If you lie it shows that you know what is the truth and you automatically distort it for some reason, I don't know. Maybe you love distorting the truth, it could make you satisfy when people believe what you told them.  Just the thought. 

Comment by Etaru on November 26, 2012 at 5:53pm

I do the same thing.  Back when I was in high school I lied to keep myself safe.  Now I lie out of sheer habit. It's like I can't stop it.  I definitely lie to keep my other life a secret.  I don't lie in my other life.  I want to be honest.  In my other life, I can be. 

Comment by Marcus Camby on November 26, 2012 at 4:54pm

@romanticlazy

How'd you know? :)

Comment by taffle on November 26, 2012 at 8:08am

My DD character also lie but that's part of her job as a secret agent. She lies when she goes undercover. In real life, I don't lie unless I have a good reason to. I don't like writing application letters and resumes because I feel so much pressure to exaggerate things; otherwise, I have nothing to write about.

Comment by romanticlazy on November 26, 2012 at 2:06am

Are you lying?

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