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Fight with the DEVIL

Hi all readers,

This is my first blog post and have recently joined as well. i was in dire need of sharing rather pouring my heart out and i am writing it here because i sont know if i tell this to any other be it my friend or family will listen to me without judging or considering me naive.

Well i had a good job worked in an MNC where i was so excited to join but unfortunately had to leave job so yes i am jobless with 0% confidence that i vl fetch another job let alone finding better than the previous one. for last one and a half month i am at home useless doing nothing rather than preparing for finding another jobs ,consolidating my skill

but here i am wasting all my time in day dreaming and this is not the first time that has happened imagining that i am still working in same office and having a great time going places with friends, having a boyfriend(I have been single all my life).

it all started when i was small and yes it affected my studies alott..i wont say i was shy or introvert i was always good at doing things but when i have to study by myself i was often lost in thoughts.and i would like to admit that what i think about the most is having a boyfriend that too loing and caring and as a matter fact i am very good at blowing guys off.
i dont know y i dream f it when i never let it happen in real.

but yes since yesterday i have started the fight with this "devil" here devil refers to my sick habit of maladaptive dreaming
and for the first time i have somewat succeded in this.2 days have passed and i have DD as of now or even if i am about to i snap back to the reality in a second or two.

Day dreaming is a great way to be happy ,have your own world which is comforting but when it starts affecting daily life its better to be in the bitter reality and learn to cope with it instead of escaping and running to a world that dosen't matter(obviously unless u r a writer.. !! then u may do it.. :))
i feel so relieved .

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Comment by amy on September 19, 2015 at 4:41am: *sick

Comment by amy on September 19, 2015 at 4:41am: Well m jusy so sicked n ya kinda bored of DD.
May be i have DD it all and now nothing new is left....haha :D

Comment by Roel on September 19, 2015 at 4:24am: Haha great :D I never feel like winning :)

Comment by amy on September 19, 2015 at 4:17am: Thank you Roel for your comment and great to hear that u r a writer.
Well my problem is not loneliness i am a pretty social person.
Its just that i hate wasting my time DD which i have been doing all this while
And yeah the fight is still up...
N m winning.... :D

Comment by Roel on September 18, 2015 at 12:30pm: Welcome to Wildminds :)

Loneliness seems to be troubling everyone here. I'm sure you will find a lot of sympathy on this site ;)

Good attitude of deciding to fight that Devil :D

Learning how to snap out of it can be very usefull. Keep it up and stay strong, we will support you.

I am a writer :D so many of my daydreams about useless crap are usefull to me :) however the daydreams about me being best writer in the world etc. are holding me back. I should learn how to select.

I hope we can help you :)

-Roel