I got your friend request and accepted it.  If you get one you should get an email.  I read your blog.  Those are some tough daydreams.  I have a whole fantasy world with many, many characters.  Some of them have gone through dangerous situations.  How do they make you feel?  For me, the dangerous situations served to keep a balance in my daydream world.  Being sad all the time, I couldn't just have a world that was all beauty.  It would feel fake after awhile.  I had to inject some negativity.  I always made my character both the victim and the hero in those situations.  People were always coming after her, so she was never at fault, and she always became the miraculous survivor who helped everyone.  I'm not sure why you daydream such negative things.  Only you can figure that out.  For me, though, as long as I'm daydreaming there will probably be some bad things that happen just to keep it balanced and interesting.  I get really bored when things go perfectly.  Maybe this'll help me stop one day.  I'll get tired of thinking of negative things and get bored with my daydreams when things get too perfect.