Day 21

[Jordan]

its been 21 days and the days feel like their getting longer and it seems harder to get through this ive had moments where i sit there and my mind starts to wonder off but i catch myself i have yet to give in but im struggling i been asking myself what happens if all this isnt worth it in the end and its not what i expect it to be

 

its hard enough trying to avoid triggers and women im getting tired for awhile i felt strong and in control now most days its a struggle to get through im hoping someone can help me maybe some suggestions as to things i can do during the day to help ease the burden and distract me from wanting to fantasize any and all suggestions will be greatly appriciated i want to make it another 21 days but if the next 21 is like the last i dont think i will....

 

i havnt given in yet because i still want this more than anything i want to live my life with a sense of imagination but without the daydreams and im determined to make that happen

[Wakethenight]

Can't really offer any advice beyond stay busy and avoid triggers because that is the only thing that works for me.  But I can offer encouragement: Hang in there! You can do it!

I went a week without DDing, but then my roommate went away this weekend and I gave in (pretty much spent all day yesterday doing it) and now I feel lousy for giving in. I think maybe the longer one can try to avoid it, probably around the sixtyday mark, the easier it will become.