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Maladaptive Daydreaming: where wild minds come to rest

The real escape

Actually escaping bullying at work my real life misery i have been able to go back to how i feel when compulsive daydreaming was an advantage a creative tool not a way to block out misery.

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Comment by rainydaydreams on February 8, 2012 at 7:32am: plenty of people complaind she had the system on her side, she is keeping a charity community group running while many are folding, this means she is spending money on other organisations charitble & community services, no one who she is accountable to wanted to belive us.

Comment by rainydaydreams on February 7, 2012 at 2:53pm: I actually worked for a tiny charity all the staff had been driven away just me and my narcissistic emotionally abusive manager, iv dealt with people like that before, I am owed over £1000 in unpaid wages - I doubt she has the money anyway - but i would rather let it go than ever have to be berated and belittled by engaging in dialogue with her on any level.

Not seen the cow in over a month now and good riddance.

Comment by rainydaydreams on February 7, 2012 at 7:56am: I have my boyfriend he has been awesome, actually i meant this all to come across more positive, the thing is since i have left that place i'm 10 times happier than ever. I had to choose to lose this battle it was a decision we made together.

In fact I was kind of in my own way highlighting the irony that i used MD to escape away from that turmoil and go into my own head thinking that MD was the issues, but when i changed my real life circumstances i didn't need MD to cope quite as much.

Comment by Jules on February 7, 2012 at 1:45am: I'm so sorry you're struggling. (((hugs))) I wish I could say something so wise that could help you feel better about things. Do you have someone close to where you are to chat to? xo

Comment by rainydaydreams on February 6, 2012 at 12:52pm: unfortunatly i dont have a permenant job anymore so the bully won in that respect enought was enought, i prefared it when my charactors chatter kept me awake at night rather than dreaming up scenarios where we would argue then end up crying because i knew it would never happen in real life.