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I have to tell you this

Started on Saturday 0 Replies

You guys, I know you love to MDD. I have to tell you this. If you really want to begin a relationship with someone or even be successful at a career or talent. DO NOT daydream at all, And for a few…Continue

Lifelong Obstacles when doing MDD

Started this discussion. Last reply by Silver Swan Mar 14. 2 Replies

It's been a challenging ride for me and as an outcome, I was just shocked. I've been practicing MDD for years and I actually believed that my daydreams would materialize some day. Of course, I was…Continue

Relationships in Dreams in comparison to real life bondings

Started this discussion. Last reply by Filly Feb 16. 3 Replies

Has anybody ever wanted a relationship, wanted to find that right someone, and expected to bringthat person into your world, only to meet someone who just got angry or confused when they actually…Continue

MDD makes me appear distracted

Started Jan 31 0 Replies

When I was just a kid, I was a regular daydreamer, and I took it all for granted. Daydreaming became a natural way of life with me. Only thing is, I was socially awkward and was often caught not…Continue

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I have to tell you this

You guys, I know you love to MDD. I have to tell you this. If you really want to begin a relationship with someone or even be successful at a career or talent. DO NOT daydream at all, And for a few good reasons. People can see what your doing and it doesn't leave a good impression. This might bomb your chances. If you've been excessively daydream for years, as if you live and breathe it. It's seriously going to numb your senses and maybe shrink your mind.After I stopped daydreaming, my jaw…See More
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Silver Swan replied to Silver Swan's discussion Lifelong Obstacles when doing MDD
"thank you"
Mar 14
Filly replied to Silver Swan's discussion Lifelong Obstacles when doing MDD
"you can"
Mar 13
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Silver Swan posted a discussion

Lifelong Obstacles when doing MDD

It's been a challenging ride for me and as an outcome, I was just shocked. I've been practicing MDD for years and I actually believed that my daydreams would materialize some day. Of course, I was very young when it got started, roughly around age 12. I realized that I could fantasize, but didn't know terms such as mental illness or maladaptive daydreaming. So, I thought it was Ok to go do this. Well, apparently, it wasn't Ok after all. As everybody easily noticed that my mind was preoccupied…See More
Mar 10
Silver Swan replied to jung hoesuck's discussion Does anyone else have a ''main character'' other than yourself?
"I used to have a "main character" that was an alternative of myself. She had a very refined accent and was attractive. She was smart, talented, bold and very interesting. She had no problems with finding new relationships, but I did. I…"
Mar 5
Silver Swan replied to jung hoesuck's discussion Does anyone else have a ''main character'' other than yourself?
"I used to have a "main character" that was an alternative of myself. She had a very refined accent and was attractive. She was smart, talented, bold and very interesting. She had no problems with finding new relationships, but I did. I…"
Mar 5
Silver Swan replied to Dnivog97's discussion Losing opportunities because of mdd. how to take the first step of stopping ?
"Well, at age 29 I mentally transformed, because I got an important job where I couldn't act the way I did before. So, while I worked in the job, my state of mind was changing. It actually felt very eerie. I was looking outside myself and seeing…"
Feb 16
Filly replied to Silver Swan's discussion Relationships in Dreams in comparison to real life bondings
"He will."
Feb 16
Silver Swan replied to Dnivog97's discussion Losing opportunities because of mdd. how to take the first step of stopping ?
"Actually I did, with extreme force of inner perception."
Feb 12
Silver Swan replied to Silver Swan's discussion Relationships in Dreams in comparison to real life bondings
"Actually, I haven't seen this person for years. He was a random young guy I met for one day at a birthday party and he was 7 years my junior. He hit on me too quick, and he didn't bother to call me. He would've been too immature for…"
Feb 12
Filly replied to Silver Swan's discussion Relationships in Dreams in comparison to real life bondings
"I think you needed to share with him what was going on with you so he could understand . My guy won't say anything about specifics but we talk about his dreaming"
Feb 11
Silver Swan posted a discussion

Relationships in Dreams in comparison to real life bondings

Has anybody ever wanted a relationship, wanted to find that right someone, and expected to bringthat person into your world, only to meet someone who just got angry or confused when they actually caught you daydreaming.For example, I met a person and thought I was going to begin a relationship, but he wondered if I was OK, because I kept acting so weird.See More
Feb 11
Silver Swan replied to Dnivog97's discussion Losing opportunities because of mdd. how to take the first step of stopping ?
"Thanks to you all"
Feb 8

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Seeking more tangible things

Posted on August 16, 2018 at 11:07am 0 Comments

I literally spent nearly 20 years day dreaming about needing a boyfriend, but just today, I feel that was a scary thing to do.

I don't know many people who've done this! They basically just payed attention to others and got the partner they wanted, in a super outgoing manner. I wonder if maybe I blocked myself from people too much by diving into MDD. I was never attracted to many real people throughout my life, as they weren't as favorable as my MDD characters. So, I wondered…

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Expressing yourself is everything

Posted on August 13, 2018 at 12:17pm 0 Comments

Everybody use to gossip about me and taunt me in school for a simple reason: I didn't talk at all. I was your shy awkward type who didn't ever fit in. I had a couple friends at a time, but not too many. Everybody else was extremely chatty, super outgoing and extrovert—"and neurotypical." I was the only student that had autism spectrum disorder, so I was challenged with communicating and interacting. So my school and college job experiences were rather traumatic. Even into my…

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I discuss my life situations, but only in my MDD

Posted on July 23, 2018 at 9:02am 0 Comments

Whenever I want to express how I feel about my life situations, I discuss them with imaginary friends, because they actually listen to me without getting snarky. I find that real people don't understand my form of language or they're like "Then, do something something about it." Actually, real people wonder why I've gotten into that situation in the first place, or they can clearly see what's evident, snip at me what's going to happen and what I better do in future. It's as if in…

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It shows

Posted on July 19, 2018 at 8:07am 0 Comments

I don't know how you guys do it! I try everything to conceal my day dreaming. I will put on startled, worried, wary or perplexed expressions to hide it. I'll even move my eyes around and bite my lips. People will still look right at my eyes and maybe even into them! I guess, they still wonder what goes on in my head. If I make a slip up at home and even work, people will think, 'is she wondering?'

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At 3:47pm on December 7, 2018, Fitri Kamelia said…
Just a quick message to say we have started up a new forum on daydreaming. As its a new forum there isn't much content yet but we hope with your input it will grow. It is still a work in progress so any suggestions or offers to moderate would be greatly appreciated. We would really like it if you could join us and share your MD journey with us or even just come along to talk in the chatroom and make a few new friends. We hope to see you there x http://daydreaminblue.freeforums.net/" tabindex="0">Hello Everyone,

Just a quick message to say we have started up a new forum on daydreaming. As its a new forum there isn't much content yet but we hope with your input it will grow. It is still a work in progress so any suggestions or offers to moderate would be greatly appreciated. We would really like it if you could join us and share your MD journey with us or even just come along to talk in the chatroom and make a few new friends. We hope to see you there x

http://daydreaminblue.freeforums.net/

 
 
 

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