Comments - Hey Y'all - Wild Minds network2024-03-28T11:58:42Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4661400%3ABlogPost%3A426250&xn_auth=noYes, to be busy suppresses d…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2022-12-04:4661400:Comment:4261492022-12-04T14:58:30.420ZJessica Ballantynehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/JessicaBallantyne492
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<p>Yes, to be busy suppresses daydreaming. I wish that I were busy too. I learned a lot from many years of MD, even a lifetime, that it simply got me nowhere. You can be 'someplace else' all you want. It doesn't guarantee life in reality will get easier and better along the way. <br></br><br></br>When I was your age, I was glowing with excitement about my future. I was so very complacent. I was self-convinced that my MD was telling me what I wanted to see and hear. All around me the answers…</p>
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<p>Yes, to be busy suppresses daydreaming. I wish that I were busy too. I learned a lot from many years of MD, even a lifetime, that it simply got me nowhere. You can be 'someplace else' all you want. It doesn't guarantee life in reality will get easier and better along the way. <br/><br/>When I was your age, I was glowing with excitement about my future. I was so very complacent. I was self-convinced that my MD was telling me what I wanted to see and hear. All around me the answers were different. People were looking at me hard and making snide remarks, didn't even like me. I wasn't paying any attention. <br/><br/>Now being in my mid-30's, I realized that I was full of shit. I wasn't a very clever person, making mature and wise decisions in life. I made plenty of mistakes along the way. Got screwed over a few times. Didn't start a family or made any career success. I didn't achieve my goal to travel the world and I stayed put in my hometown. Instead of living like an adult, I'm being monitored by my mom, who strongly believes I need help. </p>