Comments - Love fixation - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T07:38:01Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4661400%3ABlogPost%3A418770&xn_auth=noMy romance fantasies ONLY inv…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2021-09-20:4661400:Comment:4195692021-09-20T13:32:54.803Zoneirahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/dreamavoyeur
<p>My romance fantasies ONLY involve people I don't know or are unavailable, because the second something actually might happen, I run away. It's a control thing, I'm struggling with opening up to someone. I'm also somewhere on the aromantic spectrum (not sure where yet) so I'm really not into holding hands or showing any affection in public - I am not asexual though, so my daydreams often involve sex. Honestly, my perfect relationship would be something that could be best described as…</p>
<p>My romance fantasies ONLY involve people I don't know or are unavailable, because the second something actually might happen, I run away. It's a control thing, I'm struggling with opening up to someone. I'm also somewhere on the aromantic spectrum (not sure where yet) so I'm really not into holding hands or showing any affection in public - I am not asexual though, so my daydreams often involve sex. Honestly, my perfect relationship would be something that could be best described as exclusive friends with benefits. That, coupled with my views on marriage and parenthood (I want none), makes it really hard to find someone who would respect my boundaries - so imaginary relationships are the only ones I feel safe in.</p> Sure, I'd love to know your t…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2021-09-12:4661400:Comment:4194022021-09-12T07:43:42.651ZKiruba Victorhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/KirubaShankarVictor
<p>Sure, I'd love to know your take on this as well as share mine further.</p>
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<p>Sure, I'd love to know your take on this as well as share mine further.</p>
<p></p> Nah, not NSFW at all. I can h…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2021-09-12:4661400:Comment:4191842021-09-12T07:20:54.947ZMelaniehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Melanie303
Nah, not NSFW at all. I can handle it lol. Thanks for replying. This is a very embarrassing topic and I need to talk about it.
Nah, not NSFW at all. I can handle it lol. Thanks for replying. This is a very embarrassing topic and I need to talk about it. Well, I've not felt love towa…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2021-09-12:4661400:Comment:4193982021-09-12T04:55:51.541ZKiruba Victorhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/KirubaShankarVictor
<p>Well, I've not felt love towards celebrities, but often times, I feel my heart jumps out to the person who shows me a little bit of affection (This happened because I've had no relationships in my life yet). I daydreamed about 2 of my crushes and lived a life with them in my heads, although, one of them got committed to someone else, the other isn't looking for anyone now (That's what she says, at least), so I'm building the bond with her to see where it goes.</p>
<p>Also, I have had sex…</p>
<p>Well, I've not felt love towards celebrities, but often times, I feel my heart jumps out to the person who shows me a little bit of affection (This happened because I've had no relationships in my life yet). I daydreamed about 2 of my crushes and lived a life with them in my heads, although, one of them got committed to someone else, the other isn't looking for anyone now (That's what she says, at least), so I'm building the bond with her to see where it goes.</p>
<p>Also, I have had sex fantasies and while they don't always feel realistic (I don't know since I haven't had it yet), it does feel good for the body.</p>
<p>I hope it wasn't too NSFW. Just sharing my experience as you are.</p>