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Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life

Started this discussion. Last reply by Camoran Mar 25, 2018. 12 Replies

My therapist has to constantly remind me that my romantic relationships in my daydreams are not real and that I cant compare the relationship I have with my real partner to the ones I have in my…Continue

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Silla Bakht replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life in the group Maladaptive Daydreamers
"This is a big problem when one is suffering I have the same problem I have lack of interest in everything especially in my partners sometimes I am very touchy about him and sometimes I hate him little to be very close to me .I need some times for…"
Jul 27, 2018
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Shae replied to Theaxe's discussion Actual Physical Dangers of MD
"I daydream and drive everyday. Idk how I do it. Never been a problem My physical problem is my ankles. I pace SOOOO MUCH that I think they are damaged for good. They hurt every time I try to run, which is sad cuz I’m pretty active. I’m…"
Jul 11, 2018
Camoran replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"The comparison between what's in your head and what you see will happen every time, whether you like it not. Comparing stuff is how we distinguish anything from anything else. What you can and should control is how you react to the comparison.…"
Mar 25, 2018
Martha McCulloch replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"Yes, of course.  It feels very real."
Mar 23, 2018
Filly replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"Do you feel in these MD relationships like you would in a real relationship? Is I mean the tingling and excitement of a new love or crush"
Mar 22, 2018
northern gal replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"I totally agree on the trust part.  I haven't been in a relationship in the past four years... and now, at age 51, I'm thinking I am done with relationships and dating.  It's just easier to have my MD relationships... they…"
Mar 16, 2018
Martha McCulloch replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"A trust issue, that strikes me as a very solid point.   In real life, you can never trust another person completely in the same sense that we can trust our inner creations. We can trust them because effectively they are us. However there…"
Mar 16, 2018
OhMyMagenta replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"For me, it’s a trust issue.  I have a very hard time trusting people, especially my intimate partners, because they can hurt me in ways that say, a friend, cannot.  I feel exposed and vulnerable in relationships the closer I get,…"
Mar 15, 2018
Rose replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"I worry about this a lot.  I'm actually married and I love my partner a ton.  But I feel like he can never entirely fulfill my romantic needs.  His solution to this was polyamory which I have been trying, but not with a ton of…"
Mar 14, 2018
Elizabeth replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
"This is interesting because imagining a "dream" man or woman for yourself is quite natural. It can help us determine what we like or not like in a potential partner. However, people here are all correct that constantly dwelling on that…"
Mar 12, 2018
Martha McCulloch replied to Shae's discussion Do your romantic relationships in you daydreams affect your relationships in real life
" It does make it difficult because no actual living man could possibly compare to any version so we can dream up. We can make our dream man do just about anything, feel just about anything, act in any way including unrealistic actions. But a…"
Feb 22, 2018

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