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Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Silver Swan Oct 19, 2018. 11 Replies

What I have noticed about myself is that my daydreams will try to comfort or supplant the need I’m desiring in my life at that moment. Right now I’m going through another rough spot in my marriage.…Continue

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Silver Swan replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"Same with me and I deeply regret it, there's no going back."
Oct 19, 2018
Stasia OBrien replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"Except (in my experience) you are just ignoring your unhappiness and it will catch up to you b/c sooner or later, your imaginary world isn't going to enough - you will want that fulfillment in your real life but you will realize that the things…"
Oct 19, 2018
dark thoughts replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"The majority of my daydreams fulfill a need- whether it is to be loved, valued, be more successful. I think creating a daydream to fulfill those needs is much better than being unhappy, or engaging in ultimately self destructive acts to try and fill…"
Oct 19, 2018
Silver Swan replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"We can make the most of reality if we can."
Oct 18, 2018
Stasia OBrien replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"I think this is the exactly why we MDD. Because we have a need that cannot be filled in reality. "
Oct 18, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Dr Pepper's discussion do I have maladaptive daydreaming? (newbie)
"The keyword you need to consider here is "maladaptive". Daydreaming by itself is totally good and totally normal, until it becomes so much that it interferes with your normal scope of life, which would make it maladaptive. You state that…"
Oct 3, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Judy's discussion Daydreaming about a actor all day
"I think there's a bunch of irony in marriage. Hollywood has done a huge wrong in playing on the role that everything ends in a Hallmark movie. Two people fall madly in love, get married and live happily ever after. Out of all the married people…"
Oct 2, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Judy's discussion Daydreaming about a actor all day
"I get that. I'm very sure this happens to most married folks after some bit of time. There's obviously something that your husband isn't providing you, hence the need to reach out and put all your checklist items into someone…"
Oct 2, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Judy's discussion Daydreaming about a actor all day
"It's a painful feeling. I get and understand it all too well. Obviously it takes two to tango, but my wife has been emotionally abusive throughout our marriage. Wanting to leave and separate was almost a bi-monthly occurrence for her. I find…"
Oct 1, 2018
Silver Swan replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"I don't understand how maladaptive daydreams fulfill a need you are desiring. It's like saying, dreaming while you are sleeping makes your wishes come true. You eventually do wake up and see absolutely nothing, because you never…"
Sep 30, 2018
Dr Pepper replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"I do this a lot, make up these perfect relationships because the one i am in is going through a rough stage. but it can be anything really, work, friends etc.  I think you're right its like you are comforting yourself but it's not…"
Sep 30, 2018
Summer replied to Finrod Felagund's discussion Does anyone else use MDD to fulfill a need you are desiring?
"Definitely... that's my go to thing."
Sep 28, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Silver Swan's discussion Has anybody ever noticed?
"I have been concealing it all my life. My wife doesn't know about it. I don't believe anyone does. At least that's what I think :)"
Sep 28, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Chica D's discussion Compulsively living in my head
"I'm sorry... I know the feeling. The world inside our heads is so much better than outside it. I find myself zombish waking up in the morning, which makes it difficult to get out the door to work. I used to be able to control them pretty well,…"
Sep 28, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Judy's discussion Daydreaming about a actor all day
"Yep, I completely understand the hardships of breaking off this attachment. Even though I'm not necessarily DD of a real person, I to am emotionally invested in the DD romance. I'm an early 40's male who has been married for 15 years.…"
Sep 28, 2018
Finrod Felagund replied to Sidefire's discussion Daydreams and personalities
"I'm an Advocate (INFJ-T). Really cool test. Thanks for sharing!"
Sep 27, 2018

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