What do people who don't have MD think about? - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T12:08:43Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/what-do-people-who-don-t-have-md-think-about?feed=yes&xn_auth=noI bet most of the things are…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-10:4661400:Comment:2763482018-01-10T16:18:22.569Zsearching momhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/searchingmom
<p>I bet most of the things are similar....I don't DD (my daughter does and that's why I became a member) so I am familiar with the process. I know her dreams are elaborate and consuming. For non DD'rs.. I think we all worry, pray, go over past scenarios and if we made correct choices. I think about what I'd like to do with my time left on earth and how I can make a difference. I get frustrated like everyone else that I have more "good intentions" than courage and that many of my thought…</p>
<p>I bet most of the things are similar....I don't DD (my daughter does and that's why I became a member) so I am familiar with the process. I know her dreams are elaborate and consuming. For non DD'rs.. I think we all worry, pray, go over past scenarios and if we made correct choices. I think about what I'd like to do with my time left on earth and how I can make a difference. I get frustrated like everyone else that I have more "good intentions" than courage and that many of my thought out plans never come to fruition. But if I stop thinking about and planning them in reality, then it is 100% sure that I will never do them, even if they aren't successful....and maybe just trying is success enough. :)</p> Haha, fair enough! Martha M…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-08:4661400:Comment:2764082018-01-08T01:01:38.797ZAsmahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Asma483
<p>Haha, fair enough! <br></br> <br></br> <cite>Martha McCulloch said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/what-do-people-who-don-t-have-md-think-about?commentId=4661400%3AComment%3A275899#4661400Comment276219"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>“just remain in the empty, dark moment”. Really? Is that what you think happens if there is no DD? No! I often review my day and think ahead to the next day and anything coming up in the near future. Goodness, ‘empty, dark…</p>
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<p>Haha, fair enough! <br/> <br/> <cite>Martha McCulloch said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/what-do-people-who-don-t-have-md-think-about?commentId=4661400%3AComment%3A275899#4661400Comment276219"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>“just remain in the empty, dark moment”. Really? Is that what you think happens if there is no DD? No! I often review my day and think ahead to the next day and anything coming up in the near future. Goodness, ‘empty, dark moment’. No, not like that.</p>
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</blockquote> “just remain in the empty, da…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-07:4661400:Comment:2762192018-01-07T23:27:13.969ZMartha Mhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/MarthaMcCulloch
<p>“just remain in the empty, dark moment”. Really? Is that what you think happens if there is no DD? No! I often review my day and think ahead to the next day and anything coming up in the near future. Goodness, ‘empty, dark moment’. No, not like that.</p>
<p>“just remain in the empty, dark moment”. Really? Is that what you think happens if there is no DD? No! I often review my day and think ahead to the next day and anything coming up in the near future. Goodness, ‘empty, dark moment’. No, not like that.</p> Interesting, how did you get…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-07:4661400:Comment:2758992018-01-07T19:32:13.810ZAsmahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Asma483
<p>Interesting, how did you get around to doing it? And @OP, same! I can't imagine how it must feel to lay in bed and just remain in the dark, empty moment.<br></br> <br></br> <cite>Martha McCulloch said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/what-do-people-who-don-t-have-md-think-about?xg_source=activity#4661400Comment276100"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>Well, honestly, the mind fills up with everyday things. I plan what I am going to do, short and longer term,…</p>
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<p>Interesting, how did you get around to doing it? And @OP, same! I can't imagine how it must feel to lay in bed and just remain in the dark, empty moment.<br/> <br/> <cite>Martha McCulloch said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/what-do-people-who-don-t-have-md-think-about?xg_source=activity#4661400Comment276100"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>Well, honestly, the mind fills up with everyday things. I plan what I am going to do, short and longer term, I reflect on events and conversations to understand more fully, I consider how I could manage things better the next time by replaying events. My spiritual practices are more focused and I feel more in tune with the world.</p>
<p>I DD’d obsessively for 65 years and have managed to keep them at bay for only this past year. Relationships are so much better, I have more self worth and hate myself less for my former constant failures.</p>
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</blockquote> Well, honestly, the mind fill…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-07:4661400:Comment:2761002018-01-07T14:21:57.852ZMartha Mhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/MarthaMcCulloch
<p>Well, honestly, the mind fills up with everyday things. I plan what I am going to do, short and longer term, I reflect on events and conversations to understand more fully, I consider how I could manage things better the next time by replaying events. My spiritual practices are more focused and I feel more in tune with the world.</p>
<p>I DD’d obsessively for 65 years and have managed to keep them at bay for only this past year. Relationships are so much better, I have more self worth and…</p>
<p>Well, honestly, the mind fills up with everyday things. I plan what I am going to do, short and longer term, I reflect on events and conversations to understand more fully, I consider how I could manage things better the next time by replaying events. My spiritual practices are more focused and I feel more in tune with the world.</p>
<p>I DD’d obsessively for 65 years and have managed to keep them at bay for only this past year. Relationships are so much better, I have more self worth and hate myself less for my former constant failures.</p> I always wanted to know about…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-06:4661400:Comment:2760772018-01-06T21:31:44.871ZChifagohttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/AnaClaraPinto
<div class="_Ejb"><div id="tw-target"><div class="tw-ta-container tw-nfl" id="tw-target-text-container"><pre class="tw-data-text tw-ta tw-text-medium" id="tw-target-text" style="text-align: left; height: 72px;"><span lang="en" xml:lang="en">I always wanted to know about it, because i don't know what think when i'm not md.</span></pre>
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<div class="_Ejb"><div id="tw-target"><div class="tw-ta-container tw-nfl" id="tw-target-text-container"><pre class="tw-data-text tw-ta tw-text-medium" id="tw-target-text" style="text-align: left; height: 72px;"><span lang="en" xml:lang="en">I always wanted to know about it, because i don't know what think when i'm not md.</span></pre>
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</div> When not DD’ing: planning, r…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-01-06:4661400:Comment:2760722018-01-06T20:29:10.074ZMartha Mhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/MarthaMcCulloch
<p>When not DD’ing: planning, reflecting, considering, replaying. </p>
<p>When not DD’ing: planning, reflecting, considering, replaying. </p>