Personality - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T12:39:55Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/personality-1?xg_source=activity&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI never realized any of this…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-29:4661400:Comment:3564052020-08-29T02:36:45.452ZJessica Ballantynehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/JessicaBallantyne492
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<p>I never realized any of this before. It really blows my mind. Although, I was a kid developing towards maturity and had a social disorder, so I was too young to see 'red flags' and read people's emotions correctly. Mom once told me I didn't like to play with the other kids. Thing is, while I was growing, my imagination went so wild and I had trouble refraining myself from my silly fantasy worlds, so I struggled to zone myself more into the real world. In other words, I lived in my…</p>
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<p>I never realized any of this before. It really blows my mind. Although, I was a kid developing towards maturity and had a social disorder, so I was too young to see 'red flags' and read people's emotions correctly. Mom once told me I didn't like to play with the other kids. Thing is, while I was growing, my imagination went so wild and I had trouble refraining myself from my silly fantasy worlds, so I struggled to zone myself more into the real world. In other words, I lived in my head a lot, and payed more attention to my dream cycle, than what's been actually going on around me. While I did this—I fell extremely quiet on people. <br/>I didn't seem to mind living in whatever worlds were going on in my head and I didn't care to notice how quiet I was. In fact, what I did back then seemed so normal to me at the time. Regardless, to everybody else I was being so very weird and they couldn't help but stare and criticize. Some of them went overboard with their reactions and told me that I had no life. Others kept their distance from me as they felt uncomfortable with my very peculiar behaviour. Most of them wondered if I was smart and I could actually talk. They even took pity on me as I just sat there all by myself, all quietly, instead of hanging out with my friends. <br/><br/>Entering my early adulthood, daydreaming rocked my world, but it greatly effected all aspects of my life. My grades suffered and I wasn't making friends, nor even experienced relationships—as all people ever noticed was that I was extremely quiet and maybe I didn't like them. My behaviour started to get funny on everyone, as my eyes looked spacey and distant and I tended to laugh for no reason at all. They wondered if I was OK and where I've been. I'd make mistakes at work and wouldn't listen to someone words, and others would react like it's world's end. <br/><br/>Just this summer, my dad caught me not listening to his sentence. He had a sit down talk at dinner with me. He told me that I really need to stop this shit. Friends do not come out of daydreams. Living in a world somewhere else will only worsen my relationships with people. They'll just notice that I'm deaf and not there, disinterested in them and their conversation. I was so shocked at this reality check. It clearly explained why I ended up heartbroken at missing on on life's moments of friend circles and romantic dating. I simply couldn't see how I impacted all those people, until dad gave me this verse of psychiatry. I remembered everything that happened and it's no wonder so many people reacted badly on me and I got bullied relentlessly. <br/><br/>Either I followed my dad's healthy advice, or I'd go on daydreaming, talking to myself and getting lost in my sea of thoughts. I truly was a very intelligent person, but the problem was that I didn't TALK. So it drove everybody off. <br/><br/>It's crazy. Since I was very young, I believed that I will randomly meet a guy near my home property, as I have met my BFF's. But I was deluded and had to realize the only way to meet someone new is to leave my comfort zone and get out there. I can't always rely on my hometown to give me those answers. <br/><br/><br/><br/><br/></p>
<p></p> Yes, I am a very secretive p…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-24:4661400:Comment:3562712020-08-24T14:10:46.983ZJessica Ballantynehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/JessicaBallantyne492
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<p>Yes, I am a very secretive person. I don't talk that much. I keep my issues to myself, and hope nobody will find out.</p>
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<p>I don't discuss my private information in regards to my MD, and I wouldn't dare. I don't like to get in trouble or be looked upon like I need some serious help. </p>
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<p>I guess that I do have the personality of a spy. It would be cool if I was one in real life. </p>
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<p>Why these type of questions, by the way?</p>
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<p>Yes, I am a very secretive person. I don't talk that much. I keep my issues to myself, and hope nobody will find out.</p>
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<p>I don't discuss my private information in regards to my MD, and I wouldn't dare. I don't like to get in trouble or be looked upon like I need some serious help. </p>
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<p>I guess that I do have the personality of a spy. It would be cool if I was one in real life. </p>
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<p>Why these type of questions, by the way?</p> well played Shadow Cat Sam s…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-24:4661400:Comment:3562672020-08-24T06:04:35.543Zalonahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/alona
<p><strong><em>well played</em></strong><br></br> <br></br> <cite>Shadow Cat Sam said:</cite></p>
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<p><em>Do you refuse to volunteer information especially in group conversations?</em><br></br> No comment</p>
<p><em>Do you have the personality of a spy or undercover detective?</em><br></br> No…</p>
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<p><strong><em>well played</em></strong><br/> <br/> <cite>Shadow Cat Sam said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="https://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/personality-1#4661400Comment355483"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p><em>Do you guys feel that you are overly secretive?</em> <br/> No comment.</p>
<p><em>Do you refuse to volunteer information especially in group conversations?</em><br/> No comment</p>
<p><em>Do you have the personality of a spy or undercover detective?</em><br/> No comment</p>
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</blockquote> I am intelligent person, but…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-22:4661400:Comment:3562322020-08-22T14:38:52.388ZJessica Ballantynehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/JessicaBallantyne492
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<p>I am intelligent person, but I got misunderstood by everyone in a small town all my life. It's really sad, actually. I do feel like all my positive experiences happened more in my head. I was very shy, reclusive and extremely quiet. So my life was vacant of relationships. I have Asperger syndrome too, so that may explain my big losses. I never managed to move out and wasn't successful in a career, whereas my formative peers launched years ago. They used to make fun of me a lot in…</p>
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<p>I am intelligent person, but I got misunderstood by everyone in a small town all my life. It's really sad, actually. I do feel like all my positive experiences happened more in my head. I was very shy, reclusive and extremely quiet. So my life was vacant of relationships. I have Asperger syndrome too, so that may explain my big losses. I never managed to move out and wasn't successful in a career, whereas my formative peers launched years ago. They used to make fun of me a lot in school, for being socially awkward and distant. So I feel very bad that it's obvious they have established adulthoods, which I don't. I stayed behind in that small town and was falling into their shadow. Today, everybody still thinks I have issues, and they strongly express it. Some of them ultimately don't like me, not just the fact I'm not outgoing, but I tend to behave irresponsibly. It's as if they all think I'm a idiot, but I'm NOT. I'm smart, unique, talented and gifted—it's just, I don't quite get their operations. </p>
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<p></p> I feel like I am an intellige…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-22:4661400:Comment:3562262020-08-22T12:14:15.477ZMohttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Mo602
<p>I feel like I am an intelligent person too but struggle to contribute to conversations, or have a fear of revealing the wrong thing about myself. I also find that many people my age have lots of experiences while most of my experiences happened in my head.</p>
<p>I feel like I am an intelligent person too but struggle to contribute to conversations, or have a fear of revealing the wrong thing about myself. I also find that many people my age have lots of experiences while most of my experiences happened in my head.</p> Well, I'm secretive in a way…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-08-02:4661400:Comment:3555322020-08-02T03:24:26.694ZJessica Ballantynehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/JessicaBallantyne492
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<p>Well, I'm secretive in a way that people find me so quiet. I have trouble expressing myself verbally and struggle to apply my own information in any group conversation. Apparently, people think it's because I'm so stupid. I'm actually very intelligent.<br/><br/>But I sure wish I was a spy or detective. That would be cool. </p>
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<p>Well, I'm secretive in a way that people find me so quiet. I have trouble expressing myself verbally and struggle to apply my own information in any group conversation. Apparently, people think it's because I'm so stupid. I'm actually very intelligent.<br/><br/>But I sure wish I was a spy or detective. That would be cool. </p> Do you guys feel that you are…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2020-07-30:4661400:Comment:3554832020-07-30T03:21:19.997ZShadow Cat Samhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/ShadowCatSam
<p><em>Do you guys feel that you are overly secretive?</em> <br/> No comment.</p>
<p><em>Do you refuse to volunteer information especially in group conversations?</em><br/> No comment</p>
<p><em>Do you have the personality of a spy or undercover detective?</em><br/> No comment</p>
<p><em>Do you guys feel that you are overly secretive?</em> <br/> No comment.</p>
<p><em>Do you refuse to volunteer information especially in group conversations?</em><br/> No comment</p>
<p><em>Do you have the personality of a spy or undercover detective?</em><br/> No comment</p> Yeah, I keep all my thoughts…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-10-04:4661400:Comment:3199112018-10-04T00:13:41.028ZSilver Swanhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/SilverSwan51
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<p>Yeah, I keep all my thoughts to myself. While eating with my family, they are doing all the talking, but I just sit there all quietly while absorbed in my fantasies. I try to listen, but my thick stream of thoughts cloud it out.<br></br><br></br>Worst of all, I am so secretive around me family. I don't say so much, and they have no idea what goes on in my head. I've always wanted to share how I feel about everything, where my life is going, but I honestly don't know how. So, they never know.…</p>
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<p>Yeah, I keep all my thoughts to myself. While eating with my family, they are doing all the talking, but I just sit there all quietly while absorbed in my fantasies. I try to listen, but my thick stream of thoughts cloud it out.<br/><br/>Worst of all, I am so secretive around me family. I don't say so much, and they have no idea what goes on in my head. I've always wanted to share how I feel about everything, where my life is going, but I honestly don't know how. So, they never know. It hurts — this is a family that brought me up for over 3 decades, but yet I can't communicate with them, not like I used to as a small kid. I've been living in daydream worlds since I was 12, so I forgot how to stay with them and be with them at all times. It's amazing how hurtful future consequences can due to your years of excessive daydreams. I swear, all my friends broke apart from me because of this too.</p>