Does M.D. progresses/worsens with time? (Do you think I do have M.D.?) - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T09:44:17Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/does-m-d-progresses-worsens-with-time-do-you-think-i-do-have-m-d?feed=yes&xn_auth=noHi Mareeya,as you mature you…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2015-02-06:4661400:Comment:2006482015-02-06T21:00:38.066ZFlorishttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Floris
<p>Hi Mareeya,<br></br><br></br>as you mature you try to find more balance in your life. Being out of balance can make you unhappy enough to motivate at least some change. Balance between fantasy and reality is hard for every one in a way. A lot of people lose their dreams and imagination completely and they can become drones. Others like MDD's day dream too much and get nothing done. <br></br><br></br>I'm 37 and have found myself coming more and more concerned with the things that I want to accomplish than…</p>
<p>Hi Mareeya,<br/><br/>as you mature you try to find more balance in your life. Being out of balance can make you unhappy enough to motivate at least some change. Balance between fantasy and reality is hard for every one in a way. A lot of people lose their dreams and imagination completely and they can become drones. Others like MDD's day dream too much and get nothing done. <br/><br/>I'm 37 and have found myself coming more and more concerned with the things that I want to accomplish than simply escaping from the boredom I felt life was. Those things partially feel like a new escape attempt (I want to make games) but they are more real than fantasy. And I do still daydream but less frequent there is simply less room for it, I have too much other stuff to do. Things that bother me emotionally demand my attention more than the need for entertainment, so I tend more towards problem solving and less towards escape. My daydreams are more realistic often, featuring me talking to another person, or having intimacy (less realistic but it's about a real person, eehee).<br/><br/>As someone introverted, I have become more extraverted, because I wanted to adapt and liked being with people from time to time, as boring, difficult and disappointing as it could be but still. I do feel that as I simply just explored, talking or reading, travelling a bit, I gradually got more interested in the outside world. Generally it's more easy for me to make contact with new people because I developed more and more a sense of humor and a broad range of interests. But I am still not a very outgoing person I don't like clubs for instance.<br/><br/>You mention becoming more introverted. I don't see this necessarily as bad as this may be important in this phase of your life where you need to explore that side and many beautiful things could come out of it. Now that I have received more input from the world I feel I have a deeper understanding of things and I can use it to my advantage. But I want to again become more introvert in a way, when it comes to work, it is my natural state and where I have my "superpower". Let other people do their boring things and let me create my unboring things.</p>
<p><br/>It really sounds like you do have ADD to me because you don't need to be hyperactive for that although there are combined types of ADHD and ADD. Your imaginative brain is obviously working overtime at the cost of productivity. Losing interest in something after a while is also common since ADD's are both more easily distracted by new things and have trouble sticking with someone that gets a bit more boring after a while (it helps to accept a bit of boredom, embrace that not everything is super exciting, such is life...).</p>
<p><br/>ADD seems very closely related to MDD and having that separate label is not always helpful. It's just that MDD is more about that imaginative part of the brain where ADD is just more about a lack of dopamine which makes it harder to concentrate and motivate yourself. Read my post about ADD. ADD's are like the introverted sisters of extraverted ADHD's.</p> Everything you have described…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2015-02-04:4661400:Comment:2006172015-02-04T21:15:13.147ZElizabethhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Elizabeth651
<p>Everything you have described is almost exactly what I go through...although I have done this for literally as long as I can remember, it also grew worse as I grew older and more addictive. I also have noticed similar problems lately with concentrating and I think that is getting worse. I have always been extremely introverted but I do have several very close friends. As for the anhedonia, what I have noticed lately is not necessarily that I don't enjoy doing certain things anymore, but that…</p>
<p>Everything you have described is almost exactly what I go through...although I have done this for literally as long as I can remember, it also grew worse as I grew older and more addictive. I also have noticed similar problems lately with concentrating and I think that is getting worse. I have always been extremely introverted but I do have several very close friends. As for the anhedonia, what I have noticed lately is not necessarily that I don't enjoy doing certain things anymore, but that I enjoy daydreaming more... which is scary. </p> I find this really strange, i…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2015-02-04:4661400:Comment:2006132015-02-04T16:09:43.944ZIvy Whitehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/IvyWhite
<p>I find this really strange, it seems so connected, the hearing thing, the memory, the daydreaming. I have been diagnosed with ADD but I never talked about de MDD with my therapists. </p>
<p>I find this really strange, it seems so connected, the hearing thing, the memory, the daydreaming. I have been diagnosed with ADD but I never talked about de MDD with my therapists. </p> Thanks for the replies Iris,…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2015-02-01:4661400:Comment:2001962015-02-01T13:43:14.697ZMareeyahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Mareeya
<p>Thanks for the replies Iris, Blair, Alex, the1andonlyAbber, ohmymagent?.<br/> im doing fine with MDD since I concentrated on writing my daydreams down.<br/>
the only problem I have is my memory..</p>
<p>Thanks for the replies Iris, Blair, Alex, the1andonlyAbber, ohmymagent?.<br/> im doing fine with MDD since I concentrated on writing my daydreams down.<br/>
the only problem I have is my memory..</p> I'm now 36 and have been dayd…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-12-21:4661400:Comment:1978852014-12-21T06:30:13.605ZOhMyMagentahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/OhMyMagenta
I'm now 36 and have been daydreaming since I was 5. I don't know if I'd say the daydreaming "worsened" over time; frequency hasn't increased nor has duration. Daydreaming is a part of my daily life, mostly during my commute to work, for an hour or two before bed, and if I'm not working, I'll daydream during the day. The need/purpose for the daydreaming has shifted since I was a child, now more geared towards stories of love, passion, excitement and tragedy. At times, the daydreaming has…
I'm now 36 and have been daydreaming since I was 5. I don't know if I'd say the daydreaming "worsened" over time; frequency hasn't increased nor has duration. Daydreaming is a part of my daily life, mostly during my commute to work, for an hour or two before bed, and if I'm not working, I'll daydream during the day. The need/purpose for the daydreaming has shifted since I was a child, now more geared towards stories of love, passion, excitement and tragedy. At times, the daydreaming has disrupted my sleep but for the most part, I've got that under control.<br />
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I have a diagnosis of Attention Deficet Hyperactivity Disorder; primary inattentive type. This means I experience symptoms more related to the concentration and focus side of the spectrum; no hyperactivity is present. I also have hearing damage in my right ear. The issues you mentioned in your post Mareeya about being easily distracted and hyper awareness to your environment, can be quite common for people with ADHD.<br />
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I'm also more of an introverted person, with a small close-knit friend group and family to socialize with. Love my friends and family, but I'm not a big fan of going out. Too much potential for social awkwardness. Yeah, I'm pretty sure you hav…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-12-21:4661400:Comment:1977762014-12-21T03:35:36.353ZThe1andonlyAbberhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/The1andonlyAbber
Yeah, I'm pretty sure you have it. My MD seems to have actually gotten better over time. Then again, I'm only 15, and my MD started when I was 7 and had no idea what was going on or how to control it (or that I should control it).<br />
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Weird...I also have the hearing thing you talked about. I had no idea it could be related to MD!
Yeah, I'm pretty sure you have it. My MD seems to have actually gotten better over time. Then again, I'm only 15, and my MD started when I was 7 and had no idea what was going on or how to control it (or that I should control it).<br />
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Weird...I also have the hearing thing you talked about. I had no idea it could be related to MD! I'm 19, but I definitely know…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-12-18:4661400:Comment:1978642014-12-18T23:29:55.551ZAlexhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/AlexandraHorton
<p>I'm 19, but I definitely know I grew to rely on it more and more. It used to be a hobby or a game as a kid, though I'm pretty sure even when I played pretend with my friends that what I did was different from them. They stopped when they left the playground (talking older kids who had already grown out of imaginary friends). No clue when you could say it started, because when it starts in early childhood it's difficult to pinpoint exactly when it started, but we're talking over a decade for…</p>
<p>I'm 19, but I definitely know I grew to rely on it more and more. It used to be a hobby or a game as a kid, though I'm pretty sure even when I played pretend with my friends that what I did was different from them. They stopped when they left the playground (talking older kids who had already grown out of imaginary friends). No clue when you could say it started, because when it starts in early childhood it's difficult to pinpoint exactly when it started, but we're talking over a decade for me. I get really touchy when people (aka my therapist) refer to "Rith" as someone else, or my friends as imaginary, etc. To quote Dumbledore, "Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?"<br/><br/>Anyway, I do actually have ADHD, but mine is separate from MDD. I'm sure it doesn't help as MDD is one more distraction, but often the symptoms don't correlate. I have that sort of hearing "problem" as well. I've done every hearing test on the Internet and all of them say I have perfect hearing, but I have trouble understanding people when others don't have a problem, mostly with background noise but even when there isn't any. My dad has this issue, but more to do with hyper-focus, like the term in my psych text book "inattentive blindness."</p> The type of MDD you have desc…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-12-18:4661400:Comment:1978582014-12-18T20:17:01.412ZBlairhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Blair
<p>The type of MDD you have described (not necessarily the other issues you mention) sound a lot like me. I pace and mutter all the time. The scenarios I play through are highly unlikely but not physically impossible. As an example: if I'm MDDing while cooking, I'm cooking for someone who I've respected but might not have talked to in 20 years and I'll talk to them through the process.</p>
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<p>Hope that helps. I think that once MDD is there in adulthood it's as harmful as it is going to…</p>
<p>The type of MDD you have described (not necessarily the other issues you mention) sound a lot like me. I pace and mutter all the time. The scenarios I play through are highly unlikely but not physically impossible. As an example: if I'm MDDing while cooking, I'm cooking for someone who I've respected but might not have talked to in 20 years and I'll talk to them through the process.</p>
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<p>Hope that helps. I think that once MDD is there in adulthood it's as harmful as it is going to be unless you make a conscious effort to make it worse. The fact that you are doing it in adulthood is the point and potentially the problem. </p> Hello Mareeya,
I'm 49 now and…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-12-18:4661400:Comment:1976702014-12-18T14:41:29.413ZIrishttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Iris
<p>Hello Mareeya,</p>
<p>I'm 49 now and I daydream since I was 9 years old. There were only few times in my life, when I didn't daydream for weeks or months, usually I daydream more or less every day.</p>
<p>Like you, I have memory and concentration problems. I think they have worsened over the years. I write notes for every little thing. I can work, but I can't concentrate for longer periods of time.</p>
<p>It is interesting, that you mention hearing problems. You describe them the same way I…</p>
<p>Hello Mareeya,</p>
<p>I'm 49 now and I daydream since I was 9 years old. There were only few times in my life, when I didn't daydream for weeks or months, usually I daydream more or less every day.</p>
<p>Like you, I have memory and concentration problems. I think they have worsened over the years. I write notes for every little thing. I can work, but I can't concentrate for longer periods of time.</p>
<p>It is interesting, that you mention hearing problems. You describe them the same way I have them. When I was younger, my parents accused me of not wanting to hear. As you mentioned, sometimes I would understand what they said shortly after hearing them. So they refused to repeat what they said. But I'm not sure, whether this has any relation to MDD. Maybe it is rather a physical problem, and it is just a co-incident that we both have this issue.</p>
<p>Like you, I'm rather an introverted person, but I have a family and social contacts - this hasn't changed much over the years.</p>
<p>What you say about getting anhedonic, this sounds a bit like a depression. I think this comes and goes - moodswings.</p>
<p>I hope this was a help for you and I wish you all the best!</p>