Confused, need opinions - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T14:23:42Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/confused-need-opinions?feed=yes&xn_auth=nodear leann,
i think the actua…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2013-01-03:4661400:Comment:1207682013-01-03T17:30:27.400Zsue peakehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/suepeake
<p>dear leann,</p>
<p>i think the actual dx of md is just a name,nothing more.its a description of a behavour that we do,it doesnt to me really matter how it happends etc....its just that for a while we ddream to a maladaptive degree,we obsess,we comfort ourselves i think.i dont know why individuals feel they need to comfort themselves as i think everybodys story is different and some it may just be they have a great imagination and need to do something with it when bored.</p>
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<p>dear leann,</p>
<p>i think the actual dx of md is just a name,nothing more.its a description of a behavour that we do,it doesnt to me really matter how it happends etc....its just that for a while we ddream to a maladaptive degree,we obsess,we comfort ourselves i think.i dont know why individuals feel they need to comfort themselves as i think everybodys story is different and some it may just be they have a great imagination and need to do something with it when bored.</p>
<p>something else i thing doesnt help is worrying about doing it,it feeds it.like you i now only dd mainly when listening to music.however it took me almost 40yrs to get to this point.i think you have to stop worrying,see it for what it is and chill.</p>
<p>im just soooo sorry it took me so long.</p>
<p>xxx</p> I remember when it all start…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2013-01-03:4661400:Comment:1210152013-01-03T17:25:07.200ZLeAnn Marcumhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/LeAnnMarcum
<p> I remember when it all started. I was about 11 I think... and it was when I first spent the night with my great grandmother. The next morning when I woke up, I felt like I was seeing the world in a totally different way. But it might have been the dream I had that night. I dreamed about one of the characters from my favorite anime and I was me, but I looked different. When I woke up, I couldn't stop DDing about them, and it grew into a story and I felt like I had what was missing that I…</p>
<p> I remember when it all started. I was about 11 I think... and it was when I first spent the night with my great grandmother. The next morning when I woke up, I felt like I was seeing the world in a totally different way. But it might have been the dream I had that night. I dreamed about one of the characters from my favorite anime and I was me, but I looked different. When I woke up, I couldn't stop DDing about them, and it grew into a story and I felt like I had what was missing that I didn't know was missing. Since then my fantasies have changed, but when I was in middle school was when it started to consume me. I think I had forgotten that I wanted to write the book at all and that I was under some kind of contract that I had to live how I planned out for myself.<br/> <br/> <cite>M Hunter said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/confused-need-opinions?xg_source=activity#4661400Comment120946"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>It's hard to say if it is MD or not considering there is no solid way of diagnosing MD and as people's experiences vary it's hard to objectively state what is MD and what isn't.<br/><br/>Perhaps your need to fantasize stemmed from some kind of subconscious desire. You mentioned dreaming about something that was never done before. You wanted to be the person to accomplish that and that became your main focus. It could be a product of MD or it could have just been a really fantasy. Have you only been daydreaming since middle school or before? </p>
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</blockquote> It's hard to say if it is MD…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2013-01-03:4661400:Comment:1209462013-01-03T17:15:53.163ZM Hunterhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/MHunter
<p>It's hard to say if it is MD or not considering there is no solid way of diagnosing MD and as people's experiences vary it's hard to objectively state what is MD and what isn't.<br></br><br></br>Perhaps your need to fantasize stemmed from some kind of subconscious desire. You mentioned dreaming about something that was never done before. You wanted to be the person to accomplish that and that became your main focus. It could be a product of MD or it could have just been a really strong fantasy.…</p>
<p>It's hard to say if it is MD or not considering there is no solid way of diagnosing MD and as people's experiences vary it's hard to objectively state what is MD and what isn't.<br/><br/>Perhaps your need to fantasize stemmed from some kind of subconscious desire. You mentioned dreaming about something that was never done before. You wanted to be the person to accomplish that and that became your main focus. It could be a product of MD or it could have just been a really strong fantasy. Have you only been daydreaming since middle school or before? </p>