Anyone daydream by replaying real life conversations or situations? - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T10:06:03Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/forum/topics/anyone-daydream-by-replaying-real-life-conversations-or?commentId=4661400%3AComment%3A319054&feed=yes&xn_auth=noI do the exact same thing. Fo…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-10-07:4661400:Comment:3201642018-10-07T08:43:12.086ZSofiahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Sofia275
<p>I do the exact same thing. For instance, if I had a fight with somebody and didn't really stand up for myself... I would later on the day think of better things I could've said and recreate the situation in my head (Obviously with my ending up as the champion in the conversation). I always try "fix" things I obviously can't in reality as a sort of coping mechanism. </p>
<p>I do the exact same thing. For instance, if I had a fight with somebody and didn't really stand up for myself... I would later on the day think of better things I could've said and recreate the situation in my head (Obviously with my ending up as the champion in the conversation). I always try "fix" things I obviously can't in reality as a sort of coping mechanism. </p> Sometimes people tell me to n…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-29:4661400:Comment:3190862018-09-29T22:27:57.096ZBarbarahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Barbara897
Sometimes people tell me to not worry because the past is the past and it had a reason why things went the way they did. And they are right, however despite of this knowledge I always have difficulties in looking forward instead of thinking of this situation or conversation that did not go the way I wanted it. After a certain time I can, but it can take days.... ( in which I am struggling with myself for not reacting differently and replaying the situation in my head).
Sometimes people tell me to not worry because the past is the past and it had a reason why things went the way they did. And they are right, however despite of this knowledge I always have difficulties in looking forward instead of thinking of this situation or conversation that did not go the way I wanted it. After a certain time I can, but it can take days.... ( in which I am struggling with myself for not reacting differently and replaying the situation in my head). yep, there's a few things fro…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-29:4661400:Comment:3190542018-09-29T16:18:07.634ZBrionahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Briona
<p>yep, there's a few things from my past that I hate happened and sometimes they pop up, and I just try to replay them but it's like painful to try. I decided it's best to ignore those as much as possible, otherwise I immediately feel like shit.</p>
<p>yep, there's a few things from my past that I hate happened and sometimes they pop up, and I just try to replay them but it's like painful to try. I decided it's best to ignore those as much as possible, otherwise I immediately feel like shit.</p> And I also feel disappointed…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-29:4661400:Comment:3192602018-09-29T11:56:53.714ZBarbarahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Barbara897
And I also feel disappointed because I can't change it...
And I also feel disappointed because I can't change it... Yes, this is what I do. If th…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-29:4661400:Comment:3192572018-09-29T11:55:42.102ZBarbarahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Barbara897
Yes, this is what I do. If the conversation did not go the way I wanted I start to imagine it with the "right" outcome.
Yes, this is what I do. If the conversation did not go the way I wanted I start to imagine it with the "right" outcome. Do you also do it if you didn…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-28:4661400:Comment:3192452018-09-28T23:41:45.051ZBrionahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Briona
<p>Do you also do it if you didn't like the conversation? Do you try to fix it or change your response in your DD?</p>
<p>Do you also do it if you didn't like the conversation? Do you try to fix it or change your response in your DD?</p> Yes definitely... it's like I…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2018-09-28:4661400:Comment:3192392018-09-28T22:55:06.599ZSummerhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Summer269
Yes definitely... it's like I reply the day in my head esp if it was amazing or somebody I liked say something that I really loved to make me blush ... I definitely act out the rest of the scenes in my head
Yes definitely... it's like I reply the day in my head esp if it was amazing or somebody I liked say something that I really loved to make me blush ... I definitely act out the rest of the scenes in my head