MD is no longer an additional or extra element of my life. I daydream just as I breath and carry on with other work without any disturbance. It has just made me a little more emotional.....or I would…

[Simran]

MD is no longer an additional or extra element of my life. I daydream just as I breath and carry on with other work without any disturbance. It has just made me a little more emotional.....or I would say it has bottled up emotions concerned with a particular thing as a result of which I express these feelings over small small things that are not appropriate crying for. This is my life. I don't know how well I've explained. But yes......that's how it is.....I feel I'm nothing.....

[Floris]

IRL many arguments between couples or even colleagues are about very little things. Usually when going deeper there is something they are profoundly unhappy about and the little things are signs of those bigger things at best. Sometimes they are not related at all.

In Houellebecqs novel "Extension du domaine de la lutte" (poorly translated as "Whatever") he describes contemplating something small, buying a bed, as something huge because he's afraid of embarrassment if people, including the salesmen, would know he has no sex life, therefore buying a 2 persons bed. The writer based it on a true story where the man that would buy a new bed committed suicide. He saw where the rest of his life would go. It's a small thing that reveals a bigger thing.

The small things not appropriate crying for, can you link them, or the time during which you had to cry, to something bigger?