Comments - I could and couldn't - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T06:54:57Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4661400%3ABlogPost%3A179102&xn_auth=noI experienced many different…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-17:4661400:Comment:1790872014-04-17T03:33:30.917ZThe1andonlyAbberhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/The1andonlyAbber
I experienced many different things when I was younger, except for the feeling of power and control. My daydreams usually centered around being the leader of a group of outcasts, or being alone but having some sort of superpower. In my current daydream, I'm the queen of an alien civilization.
I experienced many different things when I was younger, except for the feeling of power and control. My daydreams usually centered around being the leader of a group of outcasts, or being alone but having some sort of superpower. In my current daydream, I'm the queen of an alien civilization. I think many of us here can r…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-14:4661400:Comment:1789972014-04-14T17:41:45.386ZQueen Dopaminehttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/queendopamine
<p>I think many of us here can relate to you, if not all of us. You feeling these things toward your characters and the events that happen in your fantasy world could very well be a stand-in for what you've never had in real life, or what you didn't have enough of. </p>
<p>For me, I focus strongly on scenes where my main character receives attention and validation in ways that I always craved, but never properly received (especially from my parents). Other scenes, like the romance scenes, or…</p>
<p>I think many of us here can relate to you, if not all of us. You feeling these things toward your characters and the events that happen in your fantasy world could very well be a stand-in for what you've never had in real life, or what you didn't have enough of. </p>
<p>For me, I focus strongly on scenes where my main character receives attention and validation in ways that I always craved, but never properly received (especially from my parents). Other scenes, like the romance scenes, or emotional conflict where two characters argue...well, that makes less sense to me. I feel those emotions, too, but maybe it just helps me to sort out problems and how to argue and how to handle difficult situations.</p>