Comments - WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT SCARED. - Wild Minds network2024-03-29T06:05:10Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4661400%3ABlogPost%3A178995&xn_auth=nohey lily i had no intention t…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-19:4661400:Comment:1792902014-04-19T19:06:55.587ZTanyahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Tanya
<p>hey lily i had no intention to make you feel bad.i really sorry if u felt bad bcoz of it.and i will try following your advice but i also have problem trusting ppl n i feel my bf(if and wen i hve one)will judge me bcoz of my MD.I hve others problems and secrets as well which im not comfortable sharing wid ppl coz i think dt if they ever leave me they will have an advantage over me n cud destroy me...i mean not exactly destroy me but kinda like u knw tell mythem to other ppl.</p>
<p>hey lily i had no intention to make you feel bad.i really sorry if u felt bad bcoz of it.and i will try following your advice but i also have problem trusting ppl n i feel my bf(if and wen i hve one)will judge me bcoz of my MD.I hve others problems and secrets as well which im not comfortable sharing wid ppl coz i think dt if they ever leave me they will have an advantage over me n cud destroy me...i mean not exactly destroy me but kinda like u knw tell mythem to other ppl.</p> Hi Tanya,
You make me feel li…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-19:4661400:Comment:1795102014-04-19T18:37:59.689ZWater Lilyhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/WaterLily
<p>Hi Tanya,</p>
<p>You make me feel like a bad person! I have been "double dipping" for ages and only just recently told my husband about my MD. ...double dipping as in daydream life and real life relationships. I still don't think he understands what I'm talking about. He thinks my daydreaming is cute. </p>
<p>A guy that is caring and smart (worth your time) will only be bothered if you are not investing enough time in your relationship..or making an effort to make him feel special. I suggest…</p>
<p>Hi Tanya,</p>
<p>You make me feel like a bad person! I have been "double dipping" for ages and only just recently told my husband about my MD. ...double dipping as in daydream life and real life relationships. I still don't think he understands what I'm talking about. He thinks my daydreaming is cute. </p>
<p>A guy that is caring and smart (worth your time) will only be bothered if you are not investing enough time in your relationship..or making an effort to make him feel special. I suggest finding a guy who is a little quirky himself - that doesn't succumb to social norms. They would be more accepting.</p>
<p>Besides, all guys look at porn - think of your MD relationship as the female equivalent. </p> And that is SOOO true Antigon…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-18:4661400:Comment:1793702014-04-18T23:46:34.533ZDustyhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/DustyRose
<p>And that is SOOO true Antigone, our standards are probably much higher than those of "normal" people. It's actually pretty rare for me to see/meet a guy IRL that I find attractive, let alone who I click with and find interesting.</p>
<p>Because we've had the time to come up with idealized partners, no one in the real world could ever possibly live up to it.</p>
<p>And that is SOOO true Antigone, our standards are probably much higher than those of "normal" people. It's actually pretty rare for me to see/meet a guy IRL that I find attractive, let alone who I click with and find interesting.</p>
<p>Because we've had the time to come up with idealized partners, no one in the real world could ever possibly live up to it.</p> I want a bf too but i am afra…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-18:4661400:Comment:1791932014-04-18T19:25:04.214ZRosethewolfhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/MonicaBanks
<p>I want a bf too but i am afraid to get one since i have a bf in my MD world and my MD has affected my ability to form a stable romantic relationship. I am happy with him ( He <em>IS a</em> real person, my best friend) but our romantic relationship only exist in my mind. I want a bf but a lot of the guys around me are smokers, idiots, or drunken fools. I don't want a guy like that.</p>
<p>I want a bf too but i am afraid to get one since i have a bf in my MD world and my MD has affected my ability to form a stable romantic relationship. I am happy with him ( He <em>IS a</em> real person, my best friend) but our romantic relationship only exist in my mind. I want a bf but a lot of the guys around me are smokers, idiots, or drunken fools. I don't want a guy like that.</p> i have said no to people who…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-17:4661400:Comment:1790962014-04-17T10:11:00.003ZTanyahttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/Tanya
<p>i have said no to people who have proposed me bcoz somewhere deep inside i feel that my daydreams might come true. i keep waiting for people who are as perfect as the people in my daydreams.</p>
<p>i have said no to people who have proposed me bcoz somewhere deep inside i feel that my daydreams might come true. i keep waiting for people who are as perfect as the people in my daydreams.</p> OH MY GOODNESS I FEEL THE *EX…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-17:4661400:Comment:1792512014-04-17T03:43:45.084ZThe1andonlyAbberhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/The1andonlyAbber
OH MY GOODNESS I FEEL THE *EXACT* SAME WAY!!!<br />
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Seriously! I could have written that! I thought I was the only one! :-O
OH MY GOODNESS I FEEL THE *EXACT* SAME WAY!!!<br />
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Seriously! I could have written that! I thought I was the only one! :-O I so get what you mean :C
I…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2014-04-17:4661400:Comment:1791662014-04-17T00:38:55.294ZDustyhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/DustyRose
<p>I so get what you mean :C</p>
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<p>I sometimes wonder if dudes would just find me too weird to date if I ever actually told them about my mental differences and the effects they've had in my life. They'd have to be a very accepting person.</p>
<p>I so get what you mean :C</p>
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<p>I sometimes wonder if dudes would just find me too weird to date if I ever actually told them about my mental differences and the effects they've had in my life. They'd have to be a very accepting person.</p>