Comments - Pushing people away - Wild Minds network2024-03-28T23:43:43Zhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=4661400%3ABlogPost%3A164965&xn_auth=noWell the gist of my otherwise…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2013-11-30:4661400:Comment:1646852013-11-30T02:13:33.697ZShellyBellyhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/ShellyBelly
<p>Well the gist of my otherwise very long comment was that you have to recognize that your feeling disgusted with yourself if temporary. It how you feel in the moment and you don't have to attach long term attitudes to short term feelings. Also, try to find out exactly why you feel the way you do. Do you feel like you want to push people away because you feel like you want to reject them before they reject you? Do you just find it hard to maintain intrapaersonal relationships? Try to figure it…</p>
<p>Well the gist of my otherwise very long comment was that you have to recognize that your feeling disgusted with yourself if temporary. It how you feel in the moment and you don't have to attach long term attitudes to short term feelings. Also, try to find out exactly why you feel the way you do. Do you feel like you want to push people away because you feel like you want to reject them before they reject you? Do you just find it hard to maintain intrapaersonal relationships? Try to figure it out and then work from there. Also, find the things you dislike about yourself and force yourself to find three positive things about each. For example, being underweight: 1.You can always be sure there is something ft you.(Unlike us bigger gals! LOL!) 2. Many people wish they were your size. Trust me! 3. You are less likely to develop certain diseases and conditions associated with being overweight. And to the same thing for color blindness. Maybe you can bring a unique feminine perspective to it. Just determine that no matter what, you are going to accept that you do deserve love. Even if you don't feel it now, just decide. Just go a whole day in total positivity and self acceptance and examine your feelings. Butterflies take time to change and it is worth it. Stay encourages. Best wishes! :-)</p> Oh no. I am sorry Miska. I po…tag:wildminds.ning.com,2013-11-30:4661400:Comment:1646832013-11-30T02:00:38.374ZShellyBellyhttps://wildminds.ning.com/profile/ShellyBelly
<p>Oh no. I am sorry Miska. I posted a comment and accidentally deleted it. Did you get to see it?</p>
<p>Oh no. I am sorry Miska. I posted a comment and accidentally deleted it. Did you get to see it?</p>