I've been on Wildminds for quite some time now & I've noticed a large number of people hate their DDing & want it to stop. That is not the case for me. I very much enjoy my DDing & feel it provides me solace. It's annoying then when reality interferes, making DDing difficult. Even if it's a positive life event, it throws off my regular DDing habits. A friend of mine is trying to get me on a blind date with her husbands friend. This is annoying on multiple levels. It derails my DDing, forces me to be 'on' after a long day at work, & go though the exhausting 'getting to know you' process. DD's don't require me being impeccably dressed on my best behavior. I can be sitting on my couch in sweats not having showered for days & DD. I just don't want to put myself out there only to find out he's a tool/already married/still in love with his ex/a convict/or a complete doormat.