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A week's holiday

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jen Dec 4. 4 Replies

I'm in the middle of a week's holiday and I have spent most of it in my head. Other than leaving the house to do choirs that needed to be done e.g.. shopping and getting a hair cut I have spent most…Continue

Relationships and MD how do you cope?

Started this discussion. Last reply by BlackUnicorn Nov 7. 3 Replies

Hi I've been single for about 5 years I've dated on and off in that time but nothing serious. I found at the beginning of relationships that I stopped daydreaming. I had a distraction and the…Continue

Feeling ashamed but can't stop

Started this discussion. Last reply by Aj Sep 10. 3 Replies

This is awful to admit and I feel so ashamed for doing it. In my daydreams I have someone at the moment who is my main romantic interest.I've been having a really tough time losing my friends. I have…Continue

Living alone does it make things worse?

Started this discussion. Last reply by SamJ Jul 28. 8 Replies

Hi I was wondering how many people here live alone. I've just started to buy my first home on my own and though I am excited to finally be leaving home. I am also worried that it may cause me to…Continue

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Jen replied to SamJ's discussion A week's holiday
"I'm in the same position Me, I'm much older but trying to pluck up the courage to tell my friend (who also happens to be a counsellor). I know she'd listen and be sympathetic, but I've never discussed this with anyone and I…"
Dec 4
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Me Me replied to SamJ's discussion A week's holiday
"I completely understand what you mean. I am 17 years old and I spend most of my time pacing around with music in my ears doing 'nothing' when I have actually solved problems, went on adventures, tried new things, and became new people.…"
Dec 3
OhMyMagenta replied to SamJ's discussion A week's holiday
"I can remember having a week off from work once & being incredibly excited to have next to no plans. I had just started a fresh daydream scenario prior to my break & spent nearly the whole vacation in my head."
Nov 30
Jen replied to SamJ's discussion A week's holiday
"Yes I've done this too Sam, exactly the same, especially when I was a teenager. You're kind of embarrassed about it, and worried you're wasting your time - at least I did. And then your parents find something (or brothers in my case)…"
Nov 30
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A week's holiday

I'm in the middle of a week's holiday and I have spent most of it in my head. Other than leaving the house to do choirs that needed to be done e.g.. shopping and getting a hair cut I have spent most of my days pacing and listening to music. My parents are at work all day and then silent at night as they are going  through a bad time at the moment.I know when I get back to work everyone will ask what I have done and I will list the boring things while in my head I have travelled and had fun and…See More
Nov 29
SamJ commented on meghan's blog post roommate just caught me pacing
"I know how you feel I tend to listen to music and pace around the house when no-one is home. The problem with listening  to music is I don't hear if anyone comes home earlier and I've been caught by my dad a few times.  I tend to…"
Nov 29
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Source commented on SamJ's blog post Escaping reality for awhile
"I think hardly anyone has ever been plugged into reality full-time. We would all go mad if we constantly focused on everything that's wrong with anything. The very concept of a distraction exists for a reason."
Nov 21
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Escaping reality for awhile

This random thought crossed my mind today. Isn't everyone guilty of trying to escape reality? We go inside our minds and create stories and different lives. Other people escape through gaming for hours or binge watching tv shows or films and people escape into books using them to take them into another  world. I sometimes feel I would drown in reality without my daydreams and worried why it was I couldn't cope but I am beginning to think everyone feels the same need to escape but they do it in…See More
Nov 20
SamJ replied to David Burkett's discussion Character and Body Movement
"Docho I completely agree. The amount of time I've put into building my daydreams. If I had put that energy into my real life I would have achieved more. It's scary looking back at time wasted."
Nov 14
BlackUnicorn replied to SamJ's discussion Relationships and MD how do you cope?
"I think many many who daydream about relationships and stuff struggle with this... So you're definitely not alone :) Ooh yees it is really scary. I think I will always find this a bit scary... you don't want to hide such important things…"
Nov 7
SamJ replied to SamJ's discussion Relationships and MD how do you cope?
"Thank you for the reply. Your experience sounds very much like my own. I'm glad that you have met someone. It's funny how you mention they are similar to your daydream partner as I have found I seek out similarities myself when looking for…"
Nov 7
BlackUnicorn replied to SamJ's discussion Relationships and MD how do you cope?
"I experienced the same things during the last years. I was single for 5 years after I ended a 6-year relationship for a guy I daydreamed about. With all the same on and off and choosing my daydream chars over my real relationships... I came to the…"
Nov 6
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Relationships and MD how do you cope?

Hi I've been single for about 5 years I've dated on and off in that time but nothing serious. I found at the beginning of relationships that I stopped daydreaming. I had a distraction and the nervousness of wanting to impress this new person took over. But as time goes on I begin to slip back into my daydreaming habits especially if I have been unhappy and started daydreaming about leaving my partner for my daydream guy. I find I have done this in the past instead of trying to fix the problems…See More
Nov 6

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Escaping reality for awhile

Posted on November 20, 2017 at 4:16pm 1 Comment

This random thought crossed my mind today. Isn't everyone guilty of trying to escape reality? We go inside our minds and create stories and different lives. 

Other people escape through gaming for hours or binge watching tv shows or films and people escape into books using them to take them into another  world. I sometimes feel I would drown in reality without my daydreams and worried why it was I couldn't cope but I am beginning to think everyone feels the same need to escape but…

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Feeling so alone

Posted on October 16, 2017 at 4:21am 2 Comments

I've been finding it difficult to daydream recently. My mind has been preoccupied with work stresses. It's been leaving me feeling extremely lonely and sad.

I have 2 days off from work and feel so low. Last night I had a lucid dream where I knew I was dreaming so I brought up my daydream guy so I could dream about him clearly. It sounds odd but even in my dream I knew this story came from my daydreams.

I follow this person on social media I've tried to cut down the amount I…

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Without MD I would not be alive

Posted on August 18, 2017 at 4:29pm 2 Comments

It's a double edge sword. MD has stopped me pushing forward in life and doing things as it can take away days but without I truly do believe I would not be here today.

It shields me or hides my depression from me.

I have felt suicidal in the past and somehow it has pulled me through I imagine happiness and friendships and love but then when reality bites I realise MD maybe causing my depression getting me to stay in and not socialise unless necessary like work.

I want to…

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Clearing my mind

Posted on June 26, 2017 at 4:00pm 2 Comments

I just need to clear my mind and confess my feelings from today.

I don't have anyone else to tell and I am scared to incase they take my daydreams away from me with making me feel ashamed or embarrassed.

I feel like I am losing it slowly, I feel I am obsessed. I know why I daydream I want my life to be more fulfilling than working long hours and then coming home to sit on my phone and daydream my evenings away.

I dream about falling in love and someone falling in love…

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