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immersing myself in daydreaming

Started this discussion. Last reply by Theaxe Jul 5. 5 Replies

I just wondered if any of you do the same. I've been living on my own for 6 months now and I am finding each evening I am immersing myself in my daydreams.Currently my daydream is around an actor and…Continue

Daydreaming about mundane things

Started this discussion. Last reply by Fishno7 May 23. 1 Reply

Does anyone else daydream about everyday mundane things?. I daydream a lot about being in a relationship with a celebrity but I never daydream about the fantasy exciting lifestyle. My character which…Continue

Living alone

Started this discussion. Last reply by michael james blodgett Apr 29. 4 Replies

Hi please can I get some advice on how to cut down on my daydreaming. For the first time in my life I have been living alone. I moved in 4 months ago and to begin with I didn't daydream more than a…Continue

I'm curious what is the longest day dream you have had?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Martha McCulloch Apr 13. 12 Replies

I'm really curious to know what the longest daydream everyone has had and which character has been with them the longest?My longest daydream I have had was for several years through out my teenage…Continue

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SJ replied to Mikaela Williams's discussion Does anyone else put themself in fiction?
"Recently my daydreams have been based more in real life with my characters being in real world situations. But in the past I have daydreamed I was in tv shows or films. My biggest daydream used to be about Buffy I used to idolize her as a teenager…"
Jul 15
Silver Swan replied to SJ's discussion immersing myself in daydreaming
"Being in reality will not feel so bad, that is, when you cut down your day dreams. You will find reality a bit more tasteful as you merge in with it. Honestly, it took me a few years and I still struggle at being with reality today. I don't…"
Jul 2
SJ replied to SJ's discussion immersing myself in daydreaming
"Thank you for your replies. I am curious both of you seem to using past tense. Have you been able to stop MDing or at least cut back on how much you use it?  I know if I meet a real life partner that it would at the very least cut down my…"
Jul 2
Silver Swan replied to SJ's discussion immersing myself in daydreaming
"Growing up, I used to day dream about my favorite actors all the time, especially when I was drawn to a cool role that they played in a movie. My fantasies with the actor would be romantic and sexual. My fantasies would be powerful when I lay in…"
Jul 2
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immersing myself in daydreaming

I just wondered if any of you do the same. I've been living on my own for 6 months now and I am finding each evening I am immersing myself in my daydreams.Currently my daydream is around an actor and when I go into my MD state I listen to music and pace which I know alot of people do.But I also watch interviews and have tv shows on as I pace listening to music. It's like having him on the TV gives me a reference to how he looks and behaves while I pace.I sometimes feel I am completely in the…See More
Jul 1
SJ replied to Theaxe's discussion Embarrassed that my partners were all linked to MD
"Hi Theaxe  I can completely relate to this as I find I do the same thing. My MD crushes can vary quite dramatically, I will just become attracted to someone and they have all differed completely. Last year I had a MD fantasy in my head about a…"
Jun 5
SJ replied to Theaxe's discussion Stalking Tendencies
"I would say I have never really wanted to meet the people I daydream about. I am full aware that I am not in their lives and I feel if I were to meet them then it might harm the way I think of them or may lead to disappointment or worse I may come…"
May 31
Fishno7 replied to SJ's discussion Daydreaming about mundane things
"I daydream of both; with different story lines, some are closer to fantasy and some are closer to daily life activities. When I am really tired, I would easily shift to story of daily life, since the scenario and characters require much less…"
May 23
SJ posted a discussion

Daydreaming about mundane things

Does anyone else daydream about everyday mundane things?. I daydream a lot about being in a relationship with a celebrity but I never daydream about the fantasy exciting lifestyle. My character which is an extension of myself has a normal job and lives a relatively normal existence except for dating a celebrity. My daydreams normally consist of date nights and spending time together. Sometimes I even relive moments from my actual real life with them included, like if I have watched a film or…See More
May 23
SJ replied to Astrogirl's discussion Triggers for maladaptive daydreaming
"Hi Music is the biggest trigger for me, I can put my headphones in and disappear into my daydreams for hours. I tend to avoid listening the radio or music when I am driving as it is such a big trigger. "
May 4
michael james blodgett replied to SJ's discussion Living alone
"My best advice is to find something to do i find gaming helps me alot because it gives you that sense of being someone else.. being somewhere else. It gives you that sureal sense of daydreaming but i guess it can help limit it cus then youll think…"
Apr 29
SJ replied to EllyssaJ's discussion What are your "ticks" while day dreaming?
"I listen to music to help me daydream most of the time or I have the show I daydream about on TV. I pace a lot from room to room, I sometimes mouth what I am saying. When I used to live at home with my parents I would be so worried about them coming…"
Apr 28
SJ replied to David Burkett's discussion What do you do?
"I remember when I was a teenager the character and show I was obsessed with and daydreamed about continuously was a massive teen show. So it was a show that was discussed a lot at school but for some odd reason whenever it came up in conversation I…"
Apr 28
SJ replied to SJ's discussion Living alone
"Thank you for the replies. Hi David I understand how you feel, I felt the same shock when I found out about this site as I always felt I was the only one who daydreamed in adulthood. I am the same I am introverted and struggle sometimes to leave the…"
Apr 28
Aj replied to SJ's discussion Living alone
"I relate to this a lot. Do you have or would you ever consider getting a pet? That can help because it sort of feels like someone else is with you, and pets will often react to pacing/other daydream movements which can help snap you out of it."
Apr 27
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Actual dreams containing daydream people

Posted on January 9, 2018 at 5:09am 0 Comments

I don't really know what the aim of me writing this down is except to get it out of my head I guess.

Last night I had a dream about my daydream crush he was waiting at a bar to meet me and to begin with he was chatty and I felt nervous like a real date and then he began ignoring me and talking to other people. I felt really upset. I went to get a drink and when I went back to the table he was gone and then reappeared to tell me he was going off with his friends.

I woke up feeling in a… Continue

Christmas is the hardest time of year

Posted on December 26, 2017 at 8:09am 2 Comments

I was really excited as I am actually having a Christmas break this year which is rare working in retail.

I usually find this the most depressing time of the year, I love my family but to be stuck with them for 3 days straight is driving me crazy. I have no time to get inside my head and have felt really lonely and strange being completely present all day. But at night when I've tried to daydream I can't. My current daydream was started this time last year by a show I watched and has…

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Escaping reality for awhile

Posted on November 20, 2017 at 4:16pm 2 Comments

This random thought crossed my mind today. Isn't everyone guilty of trying to escape reality? We go inside our minds and create stories and different lives. 

Other people escape through gaming for hours or binge watching tv shows or films and people escape into books using them to take them into another  world. I sometimes feel I would drown in reality without my daydreams and worried why it was I couldn't cope but I am beginning to think everyone feels the same need to escape but…

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Feeling so alone

Posted on October 16, 2017 at 4:21am 2 Comments

I've been finding it difficult to daydream recently. My mind has been preoccupied with work stresses. It's been leaving me feeling extremely lonely and sad.

I have 2 days off from work and feel so low. Last night I had a lucid dream where I knew I was dreaming so I brought up my daydream guy so I could dream about him clearly. It sounds odd but even in my dream I knew this story came from my daydreams.

I follow this person on social media I've tried to cut down the amount I…

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